Rat and Horse Compatibility
The Rat and Horse make quite an interesting pair! As opposite signs in the Chinese zodiac, their relationship may be marked by friction. They are similar in their gregarious natures, their clever wits and their need for constant stimulation; however, the Rat relies on its group of loyal friends while the Horse needs a great deal of independence. The Horse can end up feeling trapped when in too intimate a relationship, but the Rat likes to know who and how much it has on its side, from friends to money.
If you are a Rat, you quite enjoy socializing with friends. You have no need to seek the center of attention, and your intelligence and sense of humor find you many friends without even trying. You can be quite charming. Even though you quite enjoy being out with other people, you are not spontaneous. You must always have a plan and an exit strategy in case disaster strikes. Rats never get caught in a corner.
When something does go wrong, it is always great to have a Rat around. No one can keep their cool during a crisis like a Rat can. You can stay so calm and collected that you might be having a day at the spa rather than organizing the evacuation of a building. These skills are very valuable to you and your loved ones.
You are great at keeping secrets - if it suits you. For you, your family comes first, and you are not above revealing sensitive information if it is to the benefit of your clan. Since you are so good at discovering information, you usually have a lot to bargain with!
You have a lot of energy, but have a hard time focussing it. This can result in you not using your time very efficiently. Hopping from project to project depletes your energy and results in work that is below your level of talent and intelligence. You need a partner that can settle you down and help you focus.
While you may have great passion with a Horse, she is not the best partner for you. You keep your emotions close, and she wears her heart on her sleeve. You value subtlety and diplomacy, and she favors honestly so brutal that it is likely to offend you. You prefer cautious decisions and back up plans whereas she needs to follow the wind and gallop off wherever her heart leads her without thinking about it too much.
Rat and Horse Love Compatibility
As lovers, these two may have an immediate, hot connection but ultimately not work out so well. However, the Rat will enjoy rising to the constant challenges the unpredictable Horse brings to the relationship. In general the Rat loves to treat its loved ones well, to show them love and care through generosity. The Horse’s occasional insensitivity may make the Rat feel unappreciated; also, the Rat tends to hoard possessions, which may make the Horse feel uncomfortable — the Horse is a wanderer who likes to pick up and go at a moment’s notice.
Rat Woman and Horse Man Compatibility
A Rat woman enjoys being social, just as the Horse does, and enjoys a life of new people, adventures, and challenges. A major conflict that may arise in a relationship between a Rat woman and a Horse man in Shengxiao is that the Horse man is unable to understand why the Rat woman keeps secrets and her personal life to herself, as the Horse man is more likely to wear his heart one his sleeve while expressing his needs and wants to his partner.
Rat Man and Horse Woman Compatibility
The Rat man is ideal when dating a Horse woman who is committed to him, as he is able to help during stressful situations, putting the Horse at ease and keeping her grounded and committed. The Rat man prefers to be a social climber but is less likely to constrain the Horse woman, allowing her the Independence and freedom she craves in her live.