Snake Love Match - Chinese Zodiac
People of this sign usually say little and possess great wisdom. They are often selfish and a bit stingy, but they have a lot of sympathy for others and will go to great length to try to help those less fortunate. By nature, they tend to over do things since they have doubts about the judgment of others. They are determined in whatever they do and hate to fail.
The Snake is the master seducer of the Chinese Zodiac. Always well-liked, Snakes are sociable yet introverted as well as intuitive and blessed with a keen aptitude for business. Although Snakes may not consider money that important, their luck and tendency to be a bit tight with their purse strings ensure they will have more money than they need. Snakes are far more mentally active than they are physically. They tend to analyze events before joining in. Overall Snakes have reserved dispositions and probing minds that make intellectual pursuits far more attractive to them than physical activity.
Snake Man Love Match
Extremely sensitive and easily hurt, the Snake male could not live without taking carefully into account other people’s attitudes and reactions. Nothing is more important to him than being at peace and in harmony with his environment. In other words, due to his utmost vulnerability, the conditions required for his psychological well-being do not lie within himself, but without.
This individual’s life motto is quite simple - "security first" - although he may be hardly aware of it. If he is charming and conciliatory, it is, fundamentally, because he feels rejection very acutely. He must at all price avoid confrontations with his fellow men and defuse threats of hostility or aggression. In order to achieve his objectives, he mobilizes all his energy on a permanent basis and never relaxes his vigilance. He acts with true prudence and circumspection, carefully scrutinizing the ground he is treading on. He always adheres to the line of least resistance. Even when he is not directly involved, he spares no efforts at smoothing over tensions and settling quarrels around him.
But the Snake male’s elaborate defense strategy involves serious drawbacks which he is generally unwilling to recognize. His extreme caution often paralyses him, neutralizing any daring and initiative he might be born with. Intent on making no false step, he forces himself to take refuge in moralism and conformism, thus running the risk of intellectual and psychological ossification. One could reproach him for his cowardice and exaggerated taste for compromise. Lastly, by dint of repressing his own aggressivity and emotional outbursts, he might very well end up an inhibited, frustrated person. What are the specific measures he usually takes to assure his security? They are numerous, varied, and sometimes contradictory.
Overly dependent on others for his own survival and happiness, he does his best to secure their good feelings toward him. He treats everybody with gentleness and consideration, almost never with belligerence. He acts with meekness and talks with circumspection, carefully avoiding tyranny and harsh words. It is practically impossible to provoke him as he has learned how to swallow his angers and conceal his pains. When bullied or attacked, he does not seek to retaliate - to him, there should be no such thing as an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth - but only puts up passive resistance, unafraid to display a marked masochistic tendency. Mahatma Gandhi, a native of the Snake sign (born AD 1869), is a perfect sample of this behavior pattern.
It is always so difficult for the Snake man to say "no" or defend his own legitimate interests against aggressors, even if he knows he will have to bitterly regret his amorphousness afterwards. He is apologetic in the extreme and shows too much gratitude for every favor he receives from someone.
This individual is keen on showing the utmost sense of equity and fair play under all circumstances. Always afraid to commit an injustice, he gives others every possible opportunity to have their chance, expose their views,, and defend themselves. He is often willing to lend an attentive ear and may at times listen patiently for hours and hours on end without interrupting his interlocutors.
When it comes to formulating ideas or reaching a judgment, he makes honest efforts to weigh all the factors in view, gauging every element available, and tries seriously and scrupulously to have as balanced an opinion as possible. It would be most surprising to see him make a rash statement or impetuous move. On the contrary, he is well known for his perpetual deliberations, hesitations, and moments of agonizing indecision. The hardest thing for him to achieve is to make up his mind, to commit himself to a definite course of action.
Skepticism and procrastination have thus become his ingrained way of life. Since he is most of the time unable to take decisions, he is prone to cling to his existing ideas and principles with such tenacity and intransigence as reveal us the maniacal,, hard-to-please, and tyrannical side to his character. In the same vein, he may at times be tempted to turn a deaf ear to someone else’s arguments if these threaten to shake and shatter his own convictions. Not rarely does he shelter himself behind the screen of futility, dilettantism, absent-mindedness, vagabondism, escapism, or even psychopathic personality in order to avoid life’s challenges. Of course, his irresponsibility is carried out in all good faith and perfect unconsciousness.
Snake Woman Love Match
Being in the line of Helen of Troy, this subject is no doubt aesthetically inclined. Her sense of proportion, line, color, rhythm, and melody reaches the highest degree. Beauty and harmony in all form exalt her; she needs them around her in order to function properly. On the contrary, ugliness and untidiness greatly revolt her, making her feel miserable and unhappy. For these reasons she is very fond of rituals, not for their symbolic significance, but for their aesthetic content. She would refuse to eat food which is not beautifully presented. Unfortunately, her love of things beautiful is often carried so far as to make her lose touch with reality; her irresistible penchant for luxury, for instance, can get her into serious financial trouble at one time or another.
The Snake female functions mostly with her heart, rarely with her mind. She possesses an unerring instinct for doing the right thing as far as human relations are concerned; whatever her background, her sense of propriety is never out of tune. Her intuition serves as a kind of extremely sensitive and accurate radar in her business of living: She can know the right answer to most problems in a flash without a shade of reasoning and is seldom betrayed by her impressions, feelings, likes, and dislikes.
She is always afraid to antagonize other people since her peace of mind and happiness largely depend on their acceptance and approval. It is why she acts with true prudence, trying to look carefully at both sides of things and duly weigh all the pros and cons involved. She also makes serious efforts to show fairness by avoiding bias, giving everybody a good chance, and to reach impartial judgments. Whether or not she can succeed in this direction is perpetually open to question because her emotivity often gets in the way of her good intentions. But she does what is in her power to do. Her basic instinct of tact and thoughtfulness seldom fails her. Gentle and affable, she excels at showing consideration for other people’s sensitivities, readily admitting her mistakes and carefully concealing her aggressivity. In addition, she has exquisitely tender affection for those nearest to her heart.
This is a highly intelligent female whose cultural level is well above the average. Everything fascinates her, for her intellectual curiosity knows of no limit. An avid reader, she does not waste her time on bad or even mediocre authors and is not liable to say stupid things. No subject seems to be beyond her grasp.
One of her major weaknesses is her persistent inability and unwillingness to face up to reality. She dreams a lot, broods a lot, and often has difficulty lifting herself out of her moods. She also deliberately cultivates her air of helplessness because it can profit her more than a display of self-reliance. The result is that she has a basically "feminine" character - she muddles through life hesitant, indecisive, unpredictable. It is difficult for her to commit herself to any definite course of action, and for others to know exactly what she is up to. Besides, she is prone to religiosity, mysticism, and bigotry.
Altruism is a quality she will have to learn all her life, for egoism is an essential part of her psychological makeup. Although she never means to be unfair or deceptive, her affability, gentleness, feminity, and helplessness are, in the last analysis, fundamentally a gimmick she uses to get what she wants out of life - and she wants everything to satisfy not only her real needs but also her caprices. She would not deprive herself of anything for anyone’s sake; she would extend a helping hand only if this profits her at the same time or at least entails no personal sacrifice.
She is extremely clever at ferreting out advantages for herself and, when necessary, gets herself be supported, thus becoming a drag on her friends sometimes and forgoing her sense of independence. (Jacqueline Kennedy’s successive marriages may well account for this character trait of the typical Snake woman.) However, in some exceptional circumstances, especially when she is involved with a Snake man, it is not impossible for her to let her heart be moved by the misfortune of others.
This woman’s need to be adored and loved for her beauty is as great as the Dragon woman’s desire to be admired and worshipped for her talent. To seduce everyone is her own way to supply fuel for her ego, and she puts all her fertile imagination to use in this endeavor. While her otherworldly charm is clearly hard to resist, it of course does not necessarily work with all. But she cannot bear seeing someone remain indifferent to her spell and will mobilize all her resources to enchant him into surrender. This is how she manages to get her way in life.
Snake Best Love Match
The best companions for persons born in the year of the snake are the reliable Ox, fearless Rooster, and heroic Dragon. Such a person can also get along well with people born in the year of the mouse, rabbit, sheep and dog. However, they should avoid the challenging Tiger, and keep only ordinary relationships with the impulsive Horse, who is hard to deal with. The cunning Monkey will challenge him. Yet people born in the year of the snake can coexist with each other peacefully. However, the sophisticated and tactful Snake shares no common point with the simple and honest Pig.
Snake/Rat Love Match - A good degree of attraction. Will cooperate successfully to achieve common goal. Satisfactory relationship possible.
Snake/Ox Love Match - Good match. Will understand each other and relate extremely well. Could form profitable and lasting ties.
Snake/Tiger Love Match - Conflicts and ill feeling. Mutually suspicious of each other. Cannot relate to one another. Indifferent or unsympathetic at best.
Snake/Rabbit Love Match - Civil and congenial ties. Will work together to accomplish mutual goals. No special attraction but no animosities.
Snake/Dragon Love Match - Sympathetic to each other. Will cooperate successfully. A compatible and fruitful union resulting in mutual benefits.
Snake/Snake Love Match - Good understanding of each other’s nature. Could form strong bonds if they have areas of common interest. No clashes.
Snake/Horse Love Match - Some conflicts and confrontations. Have difficulty in seeing eye to eye. Unlikely to have much in common. Cold or distant relations.
Snake/Goat Love Match - Cordial and moderate relationship. Compatible to a reasonable extent. No underlying conflicts. Will combine efforts when feasible.
Snake/Monkey Love Match - Not very compatible. Cannot understand or communicate with each other. Clashes and conflicts if there is lack of trust or good will. Gains must be very large for them to cooperate.
Snake/Rooster Love Match - Excellent match for marriage and business relations. Can trust and understand each other very well. Highly compatible and successful team.
Snake/Dog Love Match - Mutual respect and some area of common interest. No large conflicts. Compatible to a good degree. Will cooperate amicably.
Snake/Pig Love Match - Cannot relate or understand each other. Deeply or lasting conflicts. Cannot bridge communication gaps or settle their differences amicably.