Venus in 7th House
Venus is undoubtedly at home in the 7th house, spinning around in circles enjoying herself with the Libra energy surrounding her. Whether or not you have your Venus in the Libra, Venus in the 7th house feels it, because Libra rules this house. Those with Venus in the 7th are naturally very charming people. They crave harmony in their relationships, whether it’s with a lover or anyone else, they do their best to accommodate the others’ needs.
This is not saying they are doormats. If the accommodations are not being made by the other party, this native will easily cut them off from their favor. In love, they are exceedingly helpful. They are fair minded and want their partner to know that they are willing to compromise. These natives have a tendency to become too attached to their lover, revolving their life around them, maybe even morphing their personality to better fit them.
They feel a need to be with someone, and when they’re with someone, they want it to be harmonious. This, of course, doesn’t always work out in their favor. Being alone is hard for them and they feel a part of themselves missing. They live to please, share in pleasures, share in life with another. You crave mutual satisfaction. These natives tend to prefer committed relationships over casual ones.
They pour their entire being into their partner, and so, wish loyalty and respect. These people enjoy surrounding themselves with loved ones and exploring the relationship they’re in over anything else. Arguments or disagreements highly upset this native and they may be thrown off track when they occur. They need to learn to deal with disagreements and talk through them rather than ignoring them or pretending they aren’t there.
They also need to learn how to be happy on their own when not in a relationship so that co-dependency doesn’t occur. These people are loving and charming and can easily sway others in their favor and don’t need much help convincing others they would be perfect with them. Other people tend to see them as their match do to their nature rather than actual reality.
Venus in the 7th House
You live for relationships. It is hard for you to think about being alone. Harmony is most important to you, so it is unlikely you will attempt to dominate a lover. You are a peacemaker, sometimes going to great lengths to achieve a balanced, harmonious relationship. Be careful not to bend over backwards just to keep the peace - you may be taken advantage of. Your marriage partner may be especially attractive, charming, or well off. You are extremely attractive, agreeable, and charming, drawing others to you magnetically.
You need an unusual amount of contact and exchange with a partner, and might find that you feel completely lost without one. Some of you might quickly enter into partnerships, perhaps too quickly and neither equipped nor prepared for the responsibilities that a long-term relationship demands. In some cases, there can be a shallow or materialistic interest in partners. Your hips and lower back may be special erogenous zones for you, or they may be especially attractive body parts.