If your partner is a Virgo, love is about personal growth. Virgo people are hard working, sincere and gentle, and need partners who can help to boost their confidence and who won’t take advantage of them. Virgo could be your soulmate if you’re looking for devotion and if you can take criticism.
The ever practical perfectionist Virgo celebrates their birthday during the same month that dictates the main motivating archetype of their personalities. End of August and beginning of September bring the largest harvest time on earth. This is a time of year that people gather and bring together all the hard work from the summer, and all the waiting from the previous winter. They go out into the fields and pastures as the summer light begins to ebb and the summer heat starts to wane. In the same way Virgo’s love to bring what seems to be chaos into synthesis, and create harmony when there is discord.
Ruled by Mercury, Virgo is a bit of a head over heart person, and yet, as previous Virgo lovers in my life have amply demonstrated, they allow their childhood to permeate the rest of their life, which imbues everything that they do with a profound level of wonder and excitement. In relationships the tension between intellect and wonder, can produce a dizzying display of conversationalism and an independent search for knowledge, that can either alienate you as a Virgo’s lover or bring you in so thoroughly that you could never imagine being with someone as interesting or as dynamic.
Virgo Soul Mate
Your Virgo lover is not only shy but is extremely hard on his/her self, and that is a combination that can lead to some problematic personality traits. It can, at first, seem as though Virgo is completely detached, without emotion, and yet precisely the opposite is true. They are keenly sensitive, and this can be seen as any depth of relationship is explored between you and your Virgo lover.
This criticism is the basis of your lover’s most annoying personality trait: the external critic that exists in every Virgo. Despite your best attempts to let your partner know how much this type of nagging examination of all you faults, bugs you, they persist. It is as much a reflection of how incomplete they sometimes feel, and less about you. But it is something that will drive away not only casual relationships, but the meaningful ones as well.
Virgo has a hard enough time finding someone that they feel can even measure up to the harsh light of their ever evaluating third eye, but once they do find that special someone, the temptation can be to continue to perfect that person. As much as it is appealing to let Virgo take a red marking pen to your personality because you desire their love, it is important to remember that they are reflecting their own insecurities. In letting them continue this type of behavior you are reconstituting their own identity issues.
Don’t let Virgo fool you though. It is easy to mistake the shyness of the Virgo as aloofness, when really all it is that they are more comfortable with intellectualizing and dialoging than spilling their dark emotional secrets. It is for this reason that watching and touching them is the best way to create an intimate physical connection, rather than over eloquent speech. They want to be held when they need to feel loved, fed when they are hungry, and kissed when they feel passionate. They are an earth sign, and thus feel most at home with their five senses, so they are also known to be hot in bed.
Warning, withholding of affection as a means to argue or get something from a Virgo, will inevitably backfire. Instead of motivating them it will reduce the reason that they want to do something for you in the first place. They will feel unloved when not touched, and they will lose interest in an attempt to protect themselves. Always bribe your Virgo with love and sex, never with negatives.
Virgo and Aries Soul Connection: Argumentative
They say opposites attract and sometimes they do. In fact, if two people can appreciate what the other party brings to a relationship, which is invariably the qualities they lack themselves, then opposites can work like ying and yang both providing a balance to make up the whole. In this case, with the Aries-Virgo connection, both of these signs have their own totally different ways of operation. Aries are rash, direct, say what they think and act on impulse. They get straight to the point.
Virgo prefers to delve deeper into the why’s and why-not’s of life. They rarely act impulsively and are collectors of knowledge on an in-depth level. They have no respect for Aries way of taking a gamble and reckless way of imparting their opinions. Aries on the other hand, although for an instant can find Virgo’s mind fascinating, they quickly tire of the Virgo moralistic view on life and are likely to tell them to ‘get over themselves’. Often, this is where the Aries-Virgo connection starts and finishes, unless of course their personal charts align in other areas.
These two are first to hold out a hand to help others, but when it comes to assisting each other, there’s trouble. The Arian impulsiveness unnerves Virgo and can send them off-balance. Aries mistakes Virgo’s caring for sympathy, rather than a humane kindness, which can enrage Aries who can be quick to anger, but in defense also quick to forget.
Virgo and Taurus Soul Connection: Exhilarating
Both earth sun signs, they can almost read each other’s minds! They both fall into the category of being sensible and are aware of taking necessary precautions to safe guard their lifestyle. These two are anything but reckless with the way they conduct their life and at all times, common sense prevails. You can find them snuggled up in their cocoon of emotional security, knowing that the other will be there to provide a soft cushioning to fall on when times are tough with an encouraging word to lift them up when they fall.
Romantic Taurus will shower Virgo with the essence of beauty and tranquility when celebrations are in order and Virgo will remember every date, detail, and personal preference Taurus has, both of which will make the others heart sing with joy and pure bliss. It is an extremely comforting feeling to be able to trust and rely on each other, and this is the type of relationship they yearn to have and believe they can and should have in their lives; it is the pursuit of this type of relationship that permits them to keep faith in life itself.
There is a great deal of mutual respect with these two, which can overcome a lot of issues, because in the end they trust and can rely on each other, traits that rate as high priority on their love-lists. They connect on a mind level and they share the same work ethic of wanting to give value and a touch of excellence to everything they do. In this way, there is a lot of respect for each other and this alone can seal the romantic deal.
These two enjoy an earthy sexual compatibility that, while not necessarily filled with dramatic fireworks, burns with a quiet intensity that is deeply fulfilling. Their home is a source of refuge. They both value beauty and order in their environment and can take domestic bliss to the ultimate level, enjoying cooking, gardening and creating a quality of life that is a powerful source of strength for them both. A profound, unspoken understanding unites the Taurus-Virgo couple. They can feel secure and fulfilled together in ways that others find enviable — a classic match.
Virgo and Gemini Soul Connection: Potential
With their mind powers in sync, they can be brilliant. Both born under the influence of Mercury, planet of thought, communication and movement, they are totally absorbed on an intellectual level. These two enjoy a kindred element in their spirits, feeling comfortable with the frequency, mental agility and humor of the other. They find each other stimulating partners with which to explore the world and they’re able to blend their creative talents extremely well.
Gemini’s playful character teaches Virgo not to worry so much, bringing some adventure and exploration into the order and duty which Virgo feels so keenly. In turn, Virgos strong sense of integrity and responsibility can help Gemini come down to earth and focus. If a balance between the gregarious Gemini love of variety and the serious Virgo attunement to purity can be achieved, respect and mutual appreciation can arise between them, paving the way for a relationship that endures.
There is promise with these two, but there are basic differences. They appreciate each other’s need for freedom and creativity. Virgo has a sense of duty and Gemini rarely feels guilty about anything – a good balance. If other elements in their charts are in tune, Gemini and Virgo can be a couple that goes the distance with style, wit and even genius. They must each learn to first understand what really makes the other tick.
Virgo must realize that Gemini’s greatest fear is boredom; the twins seek to constantly learn and experience something new in the wonderland of life. Gemini must understand that Virgo seeks to integrate all that they have already learned, so that they can transform themselves into a more perfected being. They each have tremendously valuable gifts for the other, which, if truly appreciated, will help the other on their journey and inspire both love and respect.
Virgo and Cancer Soul Connection: Unconditional
Magical! Both the Virgin and the Crab are highly sensitive souls and can resonate on a deep level that is both inspiring and supportive. These two can appreciate qualities in the other that may strike outsiders as quirky or even neurotic. Virgos are always their own worst critics and Cancer intuitively knows how to affirm and nurture the delicate Virgo sense of self. Virgo perceives the tender vulnerabilities of the Crab even when Cancer tries to hide beneath their shell of protection, and will bolster them up during an emotional storm.
At the same time, a healthy Virgo won’t easily be thrown off by the famous Cancer mood swings - no small accomplishment! Both signs are inherently security oriented and can create a very comfortable and harmonious physical environment in which each of them can let some of their well-honed guard down. Virgo naturally appreciates the typical Cancer’s flair for cooking, photography, and their interest in history and the arts. Elementally these two are complimentary and they innately know how to work with each other’s energies. Virgo gives Cancer space to dream and wander the inner landscape, while Cancer accepts Virgo’s need to be excessive about certain things in life.
With attention to the potential pitfalls, these two can enjoy true, meaningful intimacy of body, mind and spirit. Virgo has a strong desire to sort through issues, and Cancer is naturally expert at recognizing the importance of emotional honesty. They realize love is about balance, with it being necessary to take the good with the bad, and both are able to make that kind of commitment work.
They both highly value their family connections and have a need to work and be of assistance to others in some way. Together these two can find a soul mate in the other and forge a beautiful relationship that functions well in the real world.
Virgo and Leo Soul Connection: Tolerance
This can be a very supportive and fulfilling relationship, and with complimentary placements elsewhere in this couple’s charts these two can find each other both fascinating and inspiring. The dynamic here is Leo taking center stage with Virgo in the wings. When they blend Leo’s grandiose ideas with Virgo’s practical way of putting them into action, their strengths and differences can stabilize their relationship and inspire respect and admiration from the other.
However, this earth and fire combination will go through trials and errors to get to this point. In this relationship, Leo is advised to activate the more their playful and creative, lion- hearted qualities that make the Lion so loveable. Virgo recognizes and loves the special talents, power and charisma their Leo partner commands, but is not impressed with a ‘legend in their own mind’ narcissism which can manifest as a Leonine ‘shadow.’ The more Leo works for applause or attention, the more disinterested a Virgo may become.
There is a natural affinity and yin/yang balance between these two, however, so that with mutual goals and enough self- awareness, a partnership between them can be extremely creative and mutually enriching. Leo can be captivated by the sheer quality of the Virgo essence; it represents a kind of ideal that enchants Leo and inspires them in ways they may not fully understand. Virgo is naturally flattered and affirmed by the attention and care they receive from Leo, and will go far to make sure they live up to the Lion’s expectations. Leo helps Virgo lighten up and celebrate life, while the Virgin will help to ground and channel the Lion’s fiery spirit.
For this union to work there needs to be more understanding of each other and true, mutual respect. Lions consider themselves royalty and Virgo is nobody’s servant, so there is likely to be a battle of the wills in this relationship, which may not last the distance of time. With other chart placements that blend well, however, a unique mix of creative spark and intelligence can make this a powerful relationship that each finds rewarding.
Virgo and Virgo Soul Connection: Connected
Perfection – these two are like peas in a pod. They have the same value system and strive for the same things in life. They are Mercury minded souls and love to chat way into the wee hours of the night, attempting to solve the world’s mysteries, which to them, seems like an easy feat. Having so much in common keeps these two coupled. Too much of a good thing, however – in this case a tendency to analyze and measure the real against the ideal – can frustrate the desires each of them secretly cherishes.
One of them must take the plunge and venture out of their initial comfort zone of relating on an intellectual level, if an earthier connection is what’s desired. But once that channel is opened, these two can experience a rare caliber of harmony and joy. If God is in the details, a Virgo-Virgo couple is a match made in heaven – as long as those details don’t trip them up so as to lose sight of what they are seeking in the relationship. As mirrors for one another, a conscious, aware Virgo couple can offer powerful insights into their mutual quest for personal transformation and help each other to heal their respective wounds to their self- esteem.
With their keen perception both will feel truly seen and appreciated as the rare gems that they are; Virgos recognize quality when they see it! Their eagerness to be of value and service to each other and the world can serve as an inspiration to those around them. With some perspective and humor, they can help each other avoid the classic Virgo tendencies toward worry and hypochondria.
These two are connected in the way that they innately understand and respect each other’s idiosyncrasies. However, when one Virgo slips up or forgets something it’s sure to be a drama. Both Virgo’s will inwardly have a hard time over the incident. Their home can be a sanctuary of beauty and healing, which they maintain with devotion and love. This is a couple of unusual purity that can support each other in their respective paths with respect, honor and profound understanding.
Virgo and Libra Soul Connection: Incomplete
Both of these Autumn born beauties desire a harmonious existence, and this match can work if Virgo learns to deliver his or her suggestions with a little sugar coating and Libra doesn’t assume that Virgo will take care of all the chores and responsibilities. Both signs can be disarmingly gracious and charming, and in the beginning, at least, they’ll go out of their way to be gentle and accommodating with each other. Libra appreciates Virgo’s refinement, intelligence and impeccability.
Libra was born for courtship, and Virgo relishes the romantic thoughtfulness their Venus ruled partner can lavish upon them. Virgo understands Libra’s need for beauty and balance, and they’ll find in each other a delightful companion with which to enjoy both the arts and nature. Libra seeks to please and find acceptance, and to that end will agree to Virgo’s demands - up to a point. After all, Virgo is simply insisting on quality and integrity, and who could argue with that?
After a while, however, Virgo’s realism can drag Libra down, while Libra’s seemingly endless capacity for social interactions may grow tiresome to Virgo. These two must first of all be genuine friends, with a foundation respect, if they are to work at building a serious relationship. With lots of understanding, and compromise, it has potential.
This union can look like being a good match, but there always seems to be something missing. Libra can be too sensitive for Virgo’s honesty. Likewise, Virgo feels misunderstood and alone when Libra goes in for seemingly superficial diversions or avoids harsh realities, leaving the dirty work to Virgo. This leaves Libra feeling unhappy and Virgo alienated or abandoned, which does not make for a good union. With compatible planets and placements elsewhere between them, however, this match can work if the requisite friendship and respect are in place to forge a strong foundation.
Virgo and Scorpio Soul Connection: Worth it
These two can blend their energies in a highly satisfying way. The Scorpio mind’s penetrating, detective-like insight quickly recognizes and appreciates The Virgo talent for brilliant analysis and perception, and these two are highly compatible on an intellectual level. Both signs are cautious when entering a relationship and it may take time to finally break the ice between them. But when trust is established, Virgo can help to sooth and ground Scorpio’s emotional intensity, while Scorpio enriches Virgo with a passionate approach to life that can be just what the Virgin needs to really flourish and relax.
Virgo will be extremely wise to keep their tendency toward criticism in check, as Scorpio’s sting can be more than the delicate Virgo self- esteem can handle. When Scorpio realizes that Virgo is their own worst critic, Scorpio will soften a bit, and can regard Virgo’s frequent helpful suggestions with a detached humor. Scorpio can be domineering, but Virgo is not easily intimidated, which wins Scorpio’s respect. Virgo doesn’t need to compete with Scorpio, leaving them to be themselves in each other’s presence. Each can be a fierce defender of the other, creating a nice base of security.
If these two value the relationship enough to work at overcoming the challenges, which may prove stressful, no doubt, the degree of satisfaction, mutual respect and essential compatibility they enjoy can be deep and lasting. With effort, they can appreciate and understand each other to a degree that may surprise those around them.
Virgo and Sagittarius Soul Connection: Stimulating
Although an inherently stressful dynamic exists between these two, each brings essential and complimentary energies that make life richer for both of them. Sagittarius seeks understanding of the Great Truths of life, and this quest for knowledge resonates with Virgo’s intense drive for personal transformation and evolution. Together they can find enormous fulfillment exploring the mysteries of both the inner and outer worlds that fascinate them both.
Sag helps Virgo loosen up and venture out of their habitual comfort zone, while Virgo can provide Sagittarius with essential lessons in the virtues of thoughtful planning, protocol and diplomacy. Virgo understands the value of accurate and effective communication, whereas Sag often forges ahead without thinking, trusting their impulses when a more intentional approach would serve them (and those around them) better.
Virgo will thrill to the Sag sense of adventure, and Sag will benefit equally from Virgo’s intelligent guidance and strategic approach to life. Virgo is naturally attracted to Sag’s fiery passion and spirit. Sag can find Virgo’s refined, beautiful earthiness a stabilizing influence that helps them to realize their dreams more effectively. Recognizing and appreciating each other’s personal differences by working together and harmonizing their skills is a winning formula.
This can be a very supportive union with terrific potential. It’s a magical connection on many levels; sexually this combination can be very exciting and together they can really expand each other’s world in meaningful ways. Sag can find a peaceful center with Virgo that helps them to make their big dreams a reality, while Virgo feels set free, living life on a larger scale than they previously had. With supportive placements elsewhere in their charts, the considerable differences between these two can combine into a powerful, transformative relationship for them both.
Virgo and Capricorn Soul Connection: Heavenly
This is a loyal and loving union – the best! Virgo and Capricorn enjoy a yin/yang balance while sharing the elemental quality of Earth; they ‘get’ each other on the most fundamental level. Their values are in total sync; their need for sincerity, meaningful work, the respect of peers, friends and colleagues, automatically creates a bond between them.
They share a good dose of common sense; their feet are firmly on the ground and move forward arm in arm, proud to be who they are - two earth beings. Virgo is profoundly loyal, supportive and appreciative of Capricorn’s abilities to manifest their vision in the real world, and can help Capricorn maintain health & balance while pursuing their ambition.
Capricorn is possibly the greatest fan a Virgo could have, one who understands their quest for excellence and tireless commitment to be the best they can be. Cap will appreciate Virgo’s constructive guidance and has terrific patience in the face of the inevitable critique Virgo offers on a regular basis, as long as Virgo is logical and respectful when they offer it. Capricorn’s respect and support is a magical balm for Virgo’s often shaky self-esteem, and Virgo is an ideal co-creator, helping Capricorn make their big dreams come true.
With common goals, and dreams and wishes united, it’s almost a guaranteed success. This couple can be rock solid, supporting each other so that each thrives and prospers. They will take joy in creating a secure and harmonious living environment in which healthy lifestyle and work habits become a priority that brings great satisfaction.
Being Earth signs, they can help off-set the drag of routine with exposure to nature; long walks or gardening will help them keep balanced. Potential soul mates, a Virgo-Capricorn couple can be a pillar of strength and standard for committed harmony for all that know them. Of course, all relationships need work to survive - these two earth signs are no different. Learn not to take each other for granted to keep love alive.
Virgo and Aquarius Soul Connection: Unpredictable
There’s an understanding of each other’s unique personalities. Being able to effectively communicate is a strong point with these two as they are both highly intelligent signs who look deeper for the answers of life. The area of creativity also rates high in their life. On an intellectual level, they have a spell-binding energy and union. Aquarius sees the future, the big picture and seeks to expand beyond the status quo; they are not as concerned with order as with freedom.
Virgo finds freedom within order, their essential nature is oriented toward the world of matter, which they innately seek to refine and perfect. This obvious difference can be a stumbling block in their relationship. They find common ground in the area of social service, both signs are profoundly compassionate and humanitarian in outlook and they can find both great personal satisfaction as well as success when they pool their respective talents to serve humanity and make the world a better place.
Virgo can feel disturbed by the Aquarian’s disregard for tradition or protocol which may trigger worry and criticism, both of which Aquarius tends to dismiss without much concern. With compatible elements in the rest of their charts, however, their differences can be made to serve each to find greater balance as individuals. Aquarius can find Virgo a steady, grounding influence that helps them relax and realize their visions in a practical, real world way. Virgo will lighten up and expand both their minds and experience under their Aquarian’s influence.
They are both surrounded by disarray. Virgo loathes chaos and is constantly making life orderly. For Aquarian, once everything is in order, they stagnate and before you know it, they are once again in chaos. The cycle between them continues. It is possible for these two to really soar in the worlds of humanitarian service, environmental projects or evolutionary work of any sort. They can recognize and appreciate the genius of the other, and in spite of considerable differences, these two may form a partnership of considerable brilliance – one that is sure to serve the family of man and the planet.
Virgo and Pisces Soul Connection: Encouraging
There’s a natural blend of mind power and intuition with these signs. As opposite sides of the same coin, Virgo and Pisces click on a gut level. Both of them recognize and admire each other’s virtues, which they may feel are lacking in themselves. Virgo excels at analysis and has set goals with step-by-step instructions of how to reach them. Pisces, on the other hand, will wish their dreams true.
The power of Pisces imagination, faith and perception can impress even critical Virgo, while the Fishes thirst for the order and earthy security Virgo provides. Both understand the heartfelt instinct to uplift their fellow man and can share with each other secret fears they may hide from the world.
Each of these two tend to struggle with low self esteem, regardless of outward appearances. Mutual support, healing and personal growth are sure to factor into this relationship. They believe in the power of positive thought and belief. Put these systems together – it can be a dynamite connection.
The pairing of these two may surprise others at first, but they often feel an immediate attraction for each other, in spite of their outer differences. Intellectual and instinctual combinations are powerful. They need more time together to truly appreciate each other’s uniqueness. If they persevere past the initial impressions, they will learn that the other has a treasure chest beneath the surface. Together they can complement and support each other in ways that are truly satisfying.