How to Attract a Taurus Man
Attracting a Taurus can be easy if you strike the right tone. Below are some useful tips to help you snag the Taurus of your dreams.
Winning a Taurus Man
The Taurus man can be a little slow on the uptake. If you were thinking of dropping a string of hints and suggestive looks and hoping he’d get the message and ask you out, think again. As a rule, you’ll probably have to ask him out yourself! The Taurus man can also be a little untrusting, however, so if you just ask him on date out of the blue, he may be a little taken aback and might even feel you’re having a cruel joke at his expense. Best to be on the safe side and combine both of the approaches outlined above. In other words, let him know you’re interested before asking him out: lingering looks, the odd oblique comment about your own singleton status and a few well-placed compliments about his appearance and personality. He may beat you to it, but it’s probably not wise to hold your breath!
The Taurus man is dependable and extremely trustworthy. He dislikes artificiality of any kind, so when complimenting him, it is best to restrict your comments to genuine statements of fact, rather than going over the top. For the same reason, when flirting, don’t lay it on thick; better to demonstrate honest affection and warmth toward him than play the ‘predatory vamp’ card! The Taurus man can also be easily embarrassed, so coming on strong could seriously backfire. The Taurus man tends to be the strong silent type, masculine but not aggressively so. He is very attracted to femininity in a partner, so if you earn a supplementary income as a cage fighter, best keep that to yourself for the time being!
The Taurus man is generally a very poor judge of character. This means it is highly likely he has been hurt in the past as a direct result of his choice of partner. Consequently he may be something of a tough nut to crack. Be prepared to take your time winning his trust. If you work with or for the Taurus man, be supportive and helpful. It is often a good idea to invite the Taurus man into your confidence on some matter (but not if it means breaking somebody else’s confidence, of course). By demonstrating your trust in him, he will come to trust you. However, the Taurus man doesn’t respond well to weakness in others. Weakness irks him. So the personal matter shouldn’t be something that demonstrates a personal weakness.
Taurus Man Interests
Before we dish the dirt on the best way to snag a Taurus, it would be helpful to have a general overview of this sign’s characteristics and traits. To begin, Taurus is one of the most stable and steady signs of the zodiac.
This can be both a help and a hindrance. For example, if the Taurus in question already likes you, chances are good that he/she will continue to like you. Taureans take a long time to change their minds. However, if they don’t like you, you’ll need a healthy helping of good luck on your side to win them over!
Another key point? Taureans usually love music, so you could try attracting them with a song, or even with a little bit of poetry. It may sound a little cheesy, but they actually love traditional romantic gestures!
What Attracts Taurus Men
Now that we know a little something about Taurus, let’s take a look at some of the best ways to attract one!
Taurus Responds To
Whether or not you’ve been on a date with the Taurus in question, one of the best things you can do is present a stable and secure image. Taureans may be attracted to folks that love drama, but they fall in love with those who appear to have their emotions under control.
They also truly dislike it when folks play fast and loose with their feelings, so if you tell a Taurus you like him/her, really mean it. While Taureans are not particularly known for being overly expressive, they do get their feelings hurt. When that happens, the cut usually runs fairly deep, so tread accordingly.
Taureans also tend to fall in love with people that are financially stable and project an air of financial confidence. This is because Taureans are usually so financially secure themselves that they are attracted to those that share the same spirit of financial responsibility.
Indulge the Senses
Attracting a Taurus is easy if you start with the senses. Remember, Taurus is the first of the earth signs, and as such, people of this sign are truly in tune with their senses. In light of this, it’s safe to say that they have a very "earthy" and sensual way about them. Here are some helpful tips:
- Crisp and clean: Whenever you are going to meet a Taurus, or even if you just think there’s a chance you’ll run into that special one, try to make sure that you’re freshly showered and properly coiffed. As a matter a fact, the more fragrant and fresh your hair smells, the more Taurus will respond.
- Give a quick spritz: Fragrance in general will be very important, so make sure yours is pleasing to the senses!
- Shine on: Soft skin is also a must. This can easily be achieved with a little exfoliation and some body lotion.
When He Takes the Plunge
Finally, if you were successful in attracting your Taurus and end up having a successful relationship, be sure to give your partner a little bit of leeway every once in a while. Although Taureans are notoriously stubborn, they may actually let go of some of that if they see that their partner really listens to them, and by extension, cares for them.