Cancer Man and Aquarius Woman
When a Cancer man and an Aquarius woman come together in a relationship, one shouldn’t expect fireworks. The combination of the two signs seems volatile to say the least, but there isn’t an aspect in this relationship that won’t work if the couple doesn’t try hard enough.
The water bearer - Aquarius woman, is a free spirited, independent and freedom loving individual. She does not like to be restricted or constrained whether at work or at home. Just like water flows freely, the character of the Aquarius woman allows her to run through life at a leisurely pace. However, water as an element is very devious and has the power to destroy everything in its way once it is propelled to do so. Though the Aquarius woman will be docile, she can take a lethal form when she wants to.
In sharp contrast to the qualities mentioned above, a Cancer man does not experience shifts like his partner. He is calm and composed in his core, a quality that reflects in his character throughout his life. He does not charge like the bull but tackles situations with a calculated mind. He takes risks but only when he knows he will emerge a winner.
Thus when you put a Cancer man and an Aquarius woman in the same room, you will come out disappointed because they are capable of creating huge fights amongst themselves within minutes. Each wants to prove his superiority and when someone challenges it, the other person doesn’t know where to look or what to do. In this conflict, it often happens that the two people do not create the best of pairs.
However, there is a ray of hope for the two. They should understand that they are as different as chalk and cheese and that if the relationship has to work, both of them have to compromise heavily. The Cancer man needs to get acquainted with his partners lifestyle as does the Aquarius woman but each will have to take immense efforts to achieve a peaceful place in their relationships.
Cancer Man and Aquarius Woman Compatibility
The hidden quality in this relationship is a something they share called “zaniness”. Both parties see the world a little tilted and enjoy their perspectives immensely. There is some gender bending as well. The Cancer man is nurturing and caring while the Aquarius woman provides clarity and vision. As you can see by the famous couples listed, it can be a very positive and enduring relationship. All three of the couples are synonymous with “great loves”. Cancer is the most protective sign while Aquarius is the boldest. Often the man is looking for an intellectual component – a cold shower as it were – which is a big relief to the Aquarius woman who is too often expected to dumb down. Her intellectual capabilities come not in terms of logic, culture or education. Rather it is her strokes of genius which come in terms of inspiration, bolts out of the blue, those shocking things Aquarians say with which there is no arguing and after which you never look at the world the same way again. Their deepest connection, however, comes from Aquarius’ desire to lead a conventional lifestyle and Cancer’s ability to provide just that. Having a big sweet hunk of a guy take care of you, gives Aquarius the perfect cover. People will think she’s normal, just like other women.
How to Attract an Aquarius Woman as a Cancer Man
Trot out your traditional offerings: home, family, security, emotional comfort, protection and serenity. It will look like a shrine to her, an altar to everything she considers holy! LOL
How to Attract a Cancer Man as an Aquarius Woman
Be opinionated, independent and aloof. Act like you’ve gotta wear the pants. When involved as a couple he needs to know that you’ll play Bad Cop to his Good Cop. It’s essential to his modus operandi.
Degree of Romance
This relationship has an etheric sweetness to it which surpasses romanticism because it is quite genuinely streaming from the higher planes. I swear at times these two can hear the angels sing.
Degree of Passion
This relationship is open to higher vibrations than passion. There is a kind of soul harmony music that passes between them, like playing a human harp at just the right pitch.
Degree of Friendship
These two can be quite devoted to one another especially as there is little ego connection between them. They can be selfless in each other’s presence like no two other people.
Degree of Marriage
This seemingly unlikely combination makes an excellent and lasting marriage. Cancers never want to end anything and Aquarians are among the most loyal of the zodiac. Both “believe in” marriage. Cancer thrives on the idea of home (nest) (haven) and comfort while Aquarius craves having what she thinks everyone else has. Aquarians pay a huge price for their Promethean qualities and often stand alone and exposed in the world they are trying to help. Cancer gives them a safe place to take respite.
Progression of Relationship
Nobody does relationships like a Cancer though it may be a bit cloying at time for Ms. Aquarius. He will make her feel wanted, needed and treasured. He is a good planner and a thoughtful companion. Every detail of her comfort will be considered (Is it warm enough for you? Do you know where the ladies room is? Should I push the seat back farther?) Once he introduces you to his mother, I mean family, you know you’re in! Ms. Aquarius will eat up the conventionality, having to pinch herself to believe 1) it’s real and 2) it’s happening to her. At last, she has a “Good Housekeeping” relationship!