Capricorn Man and Libra Woman
The relationship between a Capricorn man and a Libra woman is not hard to come by but it’s not easy either. Though the two individuals are smart and intelligent in their own right, they often fall into the “first impressions” trap. They judge people by their first looks, which is often superficial and end up losing out on many friends. If they take the time out to judge the person after a few meetings, they would probably end up together. However, since the Capricorn man and the Libra woman are both reluctant in giving each other time, chances of them missing each other are very high.
To avoid this, both the individuals have to look at each other and gauge each other sensitively. When they do so, they guarantee a secure place in each other’s lives. Since the Libra woman is warm, generous and uplifting, she can get the Capricorn man out of his moody shell and allow him to embrace his life completely. Also, once she gets to understand the Capricorn man well, she will see that most of his negative traits will be outweighed by his positive characteristics. She is a person who believes in giving second chances and for that reason, there is a very high possibility of the Capricorn man re-entering her life often.
The Capricorn man has various traits in him that display his selfish and self centered character. He is often seen as a insensitive person who has no care in the world. He also displays an attitude that is not pleasing when it first hits the eye but as and when one gets to know him, it becomes evident that he is a softie at heart. You cannot let the exterior of a Capricorn man fool you into believing that he is a person who you should not be associated with. Take the time to discover him and you won’t be disappointed in him.
To let the relationship between a Capricorn man and a Libra woman work, it needs a push from the Libra girl and some pull from the Capricorn man. She needs to prick and prod into his heart to see his loving side and he needs to give her reasons to do so. The relationship can be successful and can last long but when both individuals put in enough work. Nothing in life is free and when the two individuals understand this, they will see their relationship flourish well.
Capricorn Man and Libra Woman Compatibility
Never was a marriage more of a partnership agreement than with these two who work beautifully with one another in tandem toward common goals. Each sign is good at goal setting and defining areas of responsibility for mutual efforts. They commit by nature for efficiency) and they really enjoy the partnership process, believing that “two heads are better than one”. Each has been waiting their whole life for a faithful (accountable) sidekick almost as if the attainment of one were a rite of passage. Because of this the outlining of duties can be a bit tense. They will take social obligations with an earnestness approaching fanaticism, keeping careful track of what they did with each couple and what is expected in return. They will be careful to return invitations within the proper time frame. They enjoy entertaining but are not particularly good at getting the right mix of people together.
How to Attract a Libra Woman as a Capricorn Man
You will have to find an icebreaker (pray hard!!!!) She won’t always judge you on your social skills but they are pretty important at first. Your best bet is to compliment something attached to her but not personal such as a glimpse at her keyring. Say it is “clever” or “interesting” or “different”. That’s enough to get her talking. If you don’t do well right away and are really struck with her, this is one case where I recommend a dating coach.
How to Attract a Capricorn Man as a Libra Woman
Dress conservatively and appropriately for the occasion. Have your hair under control LOL. Be businesslike. Use your superior social skills to keep the conversation going. Understand that his reserve masks a great deal of shyness and fear of rejection. If you don’t ever want to see him again, try teasing him or being bossy. First and foremost, you don’t have to control everything around the guy and the date. Believe me when I tell you that in his own quiet way, he runs things better than you could ever dream of. You finally found someone you can relax with if you only you will. For God’s sake do yourself a favor and try saying “yes” for three months straight rather than “yes, BUT …”. Don’t bring your friends into the picture till you’ve met his family. I really mean this. I know It will be hard but it’s important. It makes a very strong statement that means something to hiim.
Degree of Romance
This couple will follow protocols largely because they lack the imagination to get off the beaten path. Capricorn, be careful because in the romance department Libra is the Queen of Withholds and Scorekeeping. She will have a set of internalized expectations about romantic behavior (“If he really loved me, he would … “) She will withhold her displeasure when you fail to read her mind but it goes on the scoreboard under “Strikes Left”. When you strike out for the last time, which is some arbitrary, made up rule she has, she will then sandbag or ”unload” on you out of nowhere with invectives and diatribes because 1>you didn’t do this and >2 you didn’t do that >3 and another thing …. That’s when you find out what a good scorekeeper she is. This will be the first time you’ve heard of your sins of omission so you’re caught completely off guard. Now you also know how good she is at 1> setting you up, 2> keeping you in the dark and 3> unloading with both barrels.
Degree of Passion
There may be a lot of hatred in this relationship from time to time but not any passion. If they go to any extremes it will be contempt and ridicule without mercy … ouch! Libra can be singularly lacking in compassion and with her help in wardrobe selection, Capricorn easily slips into the hair suit.
Degree of Friendship
Do friends badger each other? I doubt if it weren’t for sexual attraction, they would like being alone together more than a few minutes except for some sly social climbing on Capricorn’s part.
Degree of Marriage
This is good marriage material particularly when focused on external achievements, careers and child rearing.
Progression of Relationship
The relationship will proceed according to Libra’s particular logic. She does a lot of testing which Capricorn plods willingly through. During courtship may be the only time Capricorn performs this well, so, Libra, enjoy!