How to Get a Aquarius Man Back
Aquarians ability to cut off from their feelings means that – unlike more ordinary mortals – however bad the situation, they rarely get angry and are usually able to look at things in an impersonal and logical way. All fine and good, but because Aquarius detachment can make them seem rather cold and uncaring, it’s a major source of relationship breakups with people born under this sign.
Particularly challenging for more insecure types is Aquarius’s seeming inability ever to get jealous. As the star sign least into possessiveness or power games, it’s happy to let you do your own thing without interfering. It’s easy to interpret this, often quite wrongly, as lack of emotional commitment. Love and freedom go hand in hand for Aquarius. Rarely will an Aquarian lover try to "own" you, and in turn you’ll never be able to "own" them.
If you dump an Aquarius, it will often be down to their need for personal freedom and the feeling that you never really come first in their life. If you’re looking for a totally exclusive relationship where each of you spend most of your time with each other, Aquarius is probably the wrong choice for you. An Aquarian will never give up their vast social network for anyone - not even for you!
Trying to tie down an Aquarian inevitably spells big trouble. Ruled by Uranus, the planet of liberty and experimentation, this isn’t a sign that can ever be pushed around or manipulated. Aquarians demand the space to be able to mix freely with all kinds of people when and where they like. Make the mistake of attempting to box them in or cut them off from their friends, and they’re likely to head straight for the door.
If an Aquarian has dumped you, it’s often because you’ve been acting too needy, making too many demands or looking for too much support. This, the most independent of the star signs, has little time for people who are constantly looking for a shoulder to cry on and have a tendency always to lean on others. To hold an Aquarian’s interest and stop them getting bored with you, you have to be prepared to be your own person and keep them intellectually amused.
Another big turn-off for most Aquarians is any kind of bigotry and intolerance. If you come across as ignorant and prejudiced or try to set yourself up as superior to others, Aquarius will lose respect for you and enjoy putting you firmly in your place. This New Age star sign demands the highest standards from its friends and lovers: vanity, arrogance and any kind of dishonesty are pretty much unforgivable in its book.
Your best tactic for winning back an Aquarian ex is to play it cool and just let them go. Trying to hold onto an Aquarian is a sure way to drive them further away, while dramatics, recriminations and shabby actions will only arouse their contempt. The chances are that sooner or later they’ll come back to you or at the least stay friends. As the star sign most prone to sudden reversals, just when you’re least expecting it, you may find they’re ready to get back together again!
How to Get Aquarius Man Back
If your ex was born between January 20 and February 18, then you are dealing with one of the master communicators of the zodiac. If you want to rekindle your relationship with your Aquarius ex, you need to realize that you have a long way to go. Aquarians are not difficult by nature because they are governed by air. However, they do expect their partners to live up to their standards. If you break their trust, you will be instantly in the doghouse.
Affectionate, kind and loving are traits that describe an Aquarian in a relationship. However, they can also be cold and harsh when provoked. If your Aquarian has decided to call it quits, then you will have to put aside your seduction tricks and get to the bottom of the break-up. Because Aquarians are always straight-forward with their partners, you probably already know why you were kicked to the curb. In this case, information is power. If you aren’t the best talker, learn how to express your emotions. Your Aquarian ex will only agree to consider making up with you if you present a solid, honest case for the relationship.
Even though many Aquarians have the reputation of being quite flirtatious when they want to be, they are the quiet, jealous types. While they may never have crazy, fits of raging jealousy, they do not like to feel threatened by others. Even if you are split from your Aquarian lover, you should not date anyone if you plan on trying to reconcile. Aquarians need reassurance that they are the ones that you want. Proclaim your love and back it up with actions, and your Aquarian lover may start to consider reconciliation.
Needs Variety at Home
If you want to catch the eye of your Aquarian ex, reinvent yourself. Aquarians love variety in their relationships. If your Aquarian notices that there’s something different about you, it is a sign that you still may have a shot at getting back together. For example, you can change your physical appearance, develop new hobbies or adopt an attitude that is much more appealing than your current one. By spicing up your appearance and personality, you will be cooking up bait to catch your Aquarian ex. Once the attraction is sparked, you can work on letting your ex know that you are committed to doing whatever it takes to repair your fragile relationship.
Break-ups are rough all around, so you’ll need tough skin, especially when dealing with an Aquarian. Since they rarely cut their lover slack when they feel betrayed, it is important to be on your game. Getting your ex back is not out of the question. You just have to open your heart, be honest and learn how to spice up your relationship, while keeping it genuine and special every day.