How to Get a Taurus Man Back
Broken up with an easygoing Taurus? Then you must really have been pushing it some! Taurus has a reputation for being quite placid and sweet-natured and it takes a lot to make it lose its rag. When that happens it can be quite scary – and a bit of a surprise. Few people are aware of the sheer force of a Taurus’s hidden anger until they’ve been on the receiving end!
So what’s behind this duality? Well, on the one hand Taurus is ruled by Venus, the planet of love, for which reason it prefers a harmonious existence and will normally do its best to avoid unpleasantness. At the same time, of course, it’s also the fixed earth sign – which probably makes Taurus the most inflexible sign in the Zodiac!
Because Taurus, more than any other sign, has its feet firmly anchored in the ground, trying to get a Taurean to budge when they have dug in their heels is not only pointless and frustrating, it’s also inviting big trouble. If you’ve ever incurred the wrath of a charging bull, you’ll know that it’s something to avoid!
If you’ve been dumped by a Taurus, it’s often because you’ve made the mistake of trying to get it to move too fast. The bull – the symbol of Taurus – is a strong-willed animal that hates to be hurried and won’t be prodded into making any kind of decisions until it’s good and ready.
On the other hand, once it is finally set on a course of action, Taurus isn’t one to change its mind. You can try every trick in the book to persuade this sign to do a flip, but the stoical Bull won’t bat a gorgeous eyelash. Not, that is, until its admirable patience finally snaps and you’re treated to one of Taurus’s famous tirades.
How else might you have landed yourself in trouble with a Taurus? Well, maybe by making things a bit too over-complicated and overlooking the simple basics that make a relationship work for this sign. Good food and good sex, in that order, are all a Taurus really needs to be happy – and you can rest assured that they most definitely won’t be happy if either are in short supply.
Once you’ve been dumped by a Taurus, don’t expect to be able to get back together again in the twinkling of an eye. Just as it takes a long time for Taurus to decide to break up, it will also take quite a while for it to cool down and be ready to make up. To win back your Taurus ex, try tempting them with offers of gourmet dinners, a great massage or an ostentatiously expensive gift. Because yes, with Taurus, sometimes money really can buy you love!
How to Get Taurus Man Back
If your ex was born between April 20 and May 20, then you have your work cut out for you. When you are dealing with a Taurus ex, you have to put all of your cards on the table and hope that you are granted clemency because you are in for one crazy ride, including intense fighting, crying, laughing and every emotion that you can possibly think of. The Taurus man is an emotional creature, and he loves from the top of his head to the tips of his fingers and toes. If your Taurus ex called off your relationship, chances are that you were the source of disappointment. In order to get back together with your ex-significant other, you will have to be willing to put your heart on the line.
Depending on the reason for your split, you should validate your ex by explaining in detail all of the wonderful aspects of your past relationship. Let your ex know how much you appreciated the relationship. Explain in simple words how much you need your ex in your life and how you can improve your contributions to the relationship.
Your ex may want you back. However, if you are not able to make a case for yourself, you will not stand a chance. Meet up with your ex and present thoughtful, concrete examples describing how the relationship can be better moving forward. For example, tell your ex how you will be more hands on or how you can adjust your work schedule to spend more quality time together. If your ex goes into a tirade about your past mistakes, don’t succumb to arguing, defending yourself and appointing blame. Just listen and take the bashing gracefully.
If you want to soften up your ex-lover, play the romance card. Show your ex that you can be romantic and passionate how you used to be in the beginning of the relationship. Remind your ex of all of the good times that you once had together by repeating some of your old moves. For example, you can take your ex to their favorite place in town, cook their favorite food and even invite their closest friends. Taureans are very big on friendship. If you are vetted by your ex’s friends, then you are golden. By putting in some effort, your ex will see that you are serious about taking other people’s feelings into account, not just your own.
Taureans love to be in relationships because they are always in need of love and affection. Even though your ex-significant other pulled the plug on you, it doesn’t mean that your ex is happy being alone. Sure, your ex can move on but building history with someone else takes time. If you stay in your lane and make sure that you prove yourself to your ex, you will be the first person that your ex will turn to in both times of crisis and joy. With such a strong rapport, your relationship will eventually repair itself.