Aries Man Lover
Aries can be spontaneous and prone to becoming bored easily or not finishing what they start. Like Scorpio, this sign is fascinated by their partner’s sexual organs, yet is more aroused when they’re having their heads rubbed. Go figure. Their desires are strong, but not always consistent. Innocence, virginity and purity are a big turn on for them, in fact, it titillates them endlessly.
They are warriors in and out of the bedroom and tend to think of their partners more as conquests, rather than lovers. Although they love, their practicality makes it difficult for them to love for love’s sake. Love, for Arians, should be functional, utilitarian, for-a-reason and with a purpose. Their first thought when considering a love match is: “What can this person do for me?” “How can I benefit?” It’s not that Aries is superficial, they just know what they want and aren’t willing to let something as frivolous as love stand in their way. After all, they’re out to win!
In love, an Aries is a one-on-one lover. They love attention, both giving and receiving … and often can never get enough. That is, as long as things stay interesting. An Aries is just as direct and quick in pursuing love, as they are in all other areas of their life. They go after what they want, granting there hearts desire as fast as possible. Usually they are the one who does the pursuing, rarely taking no for an answer … Aries will pursue with a burning desire, fearlessly and passionately. An Aries will fall in love quickly. They are ardent lovers.
Aries is the first in line to get things going … whether or not everything gets done is another thing entirely. Aries prefers to initiate rather than to complete, so it is extremely important to do new and exciting things with an Aries, to keep the fire lit. Aries is a fire sign, and fire needs oxygen (air) in order to burn. Give words of encouragement. Aries love praise and flattery, only if true though.
Do not whisper false-nothings into the ear of an Aries. You may end up waging war, rather than fueling the fires of passion, if what you say is not true. An Aries lover loves to hear how wonderful they are, especially how important they are and they can never hear these things enough. They love to talk about themselves, so do your best to listen. An Aries lover also listens very well. They will give you their undivided attention. A sign of esteem, an Aries can easily initiate healthy self-esteem and self-love within their lover.
Ruled by Mars, the god of war, Aries can sometimes be a difficult sign to handle, especially in love. Highly impatient and competitive, many Aries have quite a fighting spirit. It is wise to never tell an Aries what to do. It is safe to make suggestions perhaps, but allow them to lead. If confronted, Aries can become childish and immature. They will fight back with their aggressive nature and are known to have temper tantrums if they do not get their own way. Talk to them in a calm voice, stating the facts without blame and you will get the best response from them.
A natural charismatic and charming leader, an Aries will razzle and dazzle someone if they like them and want them. If they are interested in you, you will know and they will pursue you endlessly … although if you want to keep them, do not give in too easily. An Aries loves the chase, it is a thrill to them. If they capture you too soon, the deeper Aries character will not have the opportunity to take root, exposing a natural loyalty and emotional devotion.
The youngest of the signs, with an Aries, what you see is what you get. They are the innocents of the zodiac. Although their warrior nature can be problematic if not directed properly, they are warm, genuine and a lot of fun. An Aries will bring out the natural self-confidence within their lover during playful activities. They are very direct and honest, easily bored by hidden motives and agendas. Their irresistible charm usually brings out the inner child in their lover.
If you fall in love with an Aries, you will never lack excitement. Aries is a sexy sign and they love sex, especially when it is spontaneous and unplanned … the more the better. Passionate, intense and aggressive, an Aries lovers requires nothing other than his other half to create unimaginable sexual ecstasy. An Aries loves total togetherness, ecstasy and freedom all at once.
In love, Aries will be faithful, as long as this fidelity is returned. Aries can get a bit jealous at times, only because they want to have all of their lovers’ attention … on every level. Aries must know that they are number one in their lovers’ life. Only then will they not be jealous and possessive. Be warned, as Aries can quickly become a towering inferno if there is even a thought of infidelity.
Sharing everything is the key to the Arian love affair. Never-ever ignore or neglect them, it won’t happen for long. They will either leave, or become demanding and argumentative. All Ariens have a pioneering, adventurous spirit, with a need to be first in their lovers’ life and heart. They are at their best when they have a lot of freedom and a lot of attention from their partner.
An Aries love will be a passionate, story-book romance that will be memorable and lasting ... no matter if the fire burns out or not. Pleasure, both giving and receiving will be paramount, and every sexual encounter will take on the drama of a conquest. Ariens have an abundance of vitality and energy that needs an outlet. The Arian needs to express sexuality more strongly than most, and in a powerful fashion.
An Aries lover can be extremely difficult to resist. The imagination, exuberance and impulsive nature, coupled with sometimes uncontrollable passion has the details of romance novels. Aries seek adventure and love to live life on the wild side…
The important thing to understand about Aries – not least where sex is concerned – is that it always prefers to be on top! There’s a predatory side to Aries people which means that for them, love is largely about pursuit and conquest. In relationships Arians love a sense of challenge: it’s this that gets their juices flowing and gives them their reputation as one of the hottest lovers in the Zodiac.
Foreplay may not be their strongpoint though, and their bedside manners may leave something to be desired. The burning sense of urgency an Aries feels for just about everything also extends to their life: achieving sexual intimacy in the shortest time possible is what matters to them – the before and after aren’t such a big deal.
For those born under the sign of the Ram, love-making is all about the thrill of the moment of moving in on their prey and then going for the kill. Doesn’t sound particularly romantic? Well, you don’t date an Aries for poetry and flowers: ruled by Mars, the planet of action and physical desire, passion always tends to be on their mind.
With energy levels unmatched by any other star sign and the ability to recharge its batteries in record short time, Aries is a sign that likes to make love briefly and often. Spontaneity is the keyword for Aries: this is the sign most likely to have it on the first date, at a moment’s notice and in the most impromptu of settings. Self-control isn’t really its thing!
What you need to understand is that risk always goes hand in hand with sexual fulfillment for Aries. Because this warrior star sign loves an element of danger, the chance of getting caught in the act is a big turn-on. Neither is it worried about the possibility of romantic rebuffs. A slap in the face simply strengthens an Arian’s resolve to score the next time round.
Pretend fighting and games of dominance and submission feature high on Aries’ list of sexual preferences – sometimes a bit of a problem if its partner doesn’t like playing it rough or things start to get out of hand. The Ram’s natural aggression is always its Achilles heel, yet it’s also the source of its unparalleled sex drive!