Cancer Man Lover
Cancer is ruled by the Moon – the planet of deep emotions, and hence, Cancerians can be quite emotional, more so than any of the other signs. Their focus is mainly on their home and family, which includes their partner and their sex life, as well as the past. Cancers remember everything you’ve ever done and can use it against you if you’re not careful. They’re fixers. Even if there’s nothing to fix. And they can sense if there’s something not quite right in their sex life. Even if there’s nothing wrong. But don’t tell them there’s nothing wrong. If you love them, let them fix it. “If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it” means nothing to Cancer.
Cancers are extremely sensitive and love to play out their fantasies. Many of them like to be dominated, as long as they’re sure that you love them. Cancers love to have their breasts and chest stroked. So focus on these areas in foreplay to pleasure your Cancer. Historical role play whets their sexual appetites. Play the rogue pirate to their damsel in distress while showing them how much you love them and you’ve wooed them for life.
In love, a Cancer is sensual, affectionate, romantic, sympathetic, imaginative, sweetly seductive, protective, loyal and intuitive. Cautious Cancer does not rush into a commitment with just anyone, but once they do commit in love they are yours forever. Their way of showing you that they like you and are interested in you will never be direct. You must pick up on their subtle clues … on their unspoken invitation.
Cancers are extremely nurturing and protective of loved ones. They hold a great potential for commitment, although it will take them some time to make the decision. Deep down Cancer craves a deep emotional connection with a lover that they can create a comforting love nest with together. They become very attached to the one they love and are extremely devoted, especially a woman. Both man and woman Cancerians are capable of great sacrifices for the ones they love … in heroic ways. There is little they will not do for you if they love you.
They are caring, possessive and protective and will most likely want to be spoiled and pampered a bit … especially the females, while male Cancers’ love to do the spoiling and pampering. Fidelity runs deep within the heart of a Cancer. A Cancers’ motive is, if you have an exceptional man or woman in your life, who needs two. They must know that their lover is faithful at all times and although they can be forgiving, they never forget … You can easily win their hearts if you make them feel secure and safe. Once they allow you to get intimate with them emotionally, they will love you for all of time. A Cancerian can never get enough love and approval … they always need more, and always will. This is their nature.
It is easy to fall in love with this devoted, affectionate, loyal and protective sign. A Cancer gets very attached to the one they love … even a bit clingy at times. They seek approval of their partner and can even become a bit co-dependent. As with the other water signs, the quality of trust is very important to them in a relationship. They are cautious about giving their heart away, and need love and security above everything else in life. A Cancer woman will offer undying loyalty to a man who can make her feel secure, holding onto him … leaning on him at times … and yet holding him up, comforting and protecting him emotionally and creating a home that he will never want to leave.
Intensely imaginative and emotionally expressive, Cancer has marked remarkable empathy and instinctive understanding of the human heart, especially of its pain. A Cancerian can feel their way into their partners emotions and sense their problems, quickly coming up with solutions before their lover has even verbally expressed their concern. This extraordinary ability to be in sync with other people’s problems and emotions allows them to keep up with everyone’s needs, including their own, keeping everyone happy.
Gentle, with great depth, richness and kindness, a Cancer-born needs approval, and lots of it. Compliment them, nurture them with your love and affection … let they know how valued, loved and important they are. They need to hear it, and often. This is the key to getting close to them. If you shine a light on their good qualities and how much you need them and rely on them, they will feel secure and feel safe enough to step out of the crab shell that protects them from too much vulnerability.
Incredibly sentimental, a Cancer loves to collect mementos and take pictures. If you write them love notes, they will treasure them always … They love gifts, keep-sakes and anything that will allow them to reconnect with the joy and emotion of a memory. The nature of a Cancer is to live often in the past during certain phases of their moodiness (or ruling moon), revisiting old wounds. They eventually find a cause for injury … so avoid hurting them and if you do, or suspect that you have, quickly apologize. This will give you an opportunity to actually get closer to them through the mistake. Do not be afraid to show your vulnerability. They will appreciate the trust involved in exposing yourself.
Cancer is a sensitive sign. They tend to show the emotion on their face and will cry during times of great emotion, whether it is because they are happy, sad, fearful, excited, surprised … Their feelings get hurt easily. If you cannot tell that something is wrong because of the look in their eyes, or the expression on their face, you are sure to know by the way they quickly shut you out. Sometimes they will only need to shut you out temporarily, but sometimes it is more permanent. They retreat quickly when hurt, depressed or angry … you will know if this happens. Express your love, apologize and be patient …
Romantic, sensual and deeply emotive, a Cancer will satisfy the every need of their lover. They are a little on the shy side and it will take awhile to open up. For this reason sex will become better with time. Emotional intimacy is necessary for a Cancer to really blossom. Their intuitive ability to connect with their partner turns lovemaking into something of a dance…
Love and sex are irrevocably intertwined in the mind of most Cancerians: many will be uncomfortable with the idea of physical intimacy unless they possess at least some degree of emotional involvement with their sexual partner. For this reason Cancer is one of the star signs least likely to have a one-night-stand.
Like all the water signs, Cancerians are born with a powerful inner sensor that helps protect them from situations that might threaten their emotional safety. This gives them a reputation for being a bit shy and cautious in love. Yet as soon as they feel able to trust you, they give of themselves unreservedly.
What you need to know is that, because of their inherent desire to look after those they love, Cancerians will stop at nothing to satisfy your every sexual need. Their powerful sense of intuition endows them with an instinctive understanding of what will make you happy, while their sensitivity gives them the patience to take as long as it takes.
The powerfully nurturing nature of Cancer draws many born under this star sign towards parenthood and family life. In fact it’s rare for Cancerians not to want children, provided they can offer them a secure and loving home. Clannish by nature, with a strong sense of ancestry, continuing its line is of paramount importance to this sign.
Some Cancerians even believe – although they would probably never admit it – that procreation is the main purpose of sex. In a few cases they may prefer to ‘save’ themselves sexually for the future co-parent of their kids; in others they may tend to lose interest in the sexual side of a relationship once the nest-making is over and done.
That isn’t to say, however, that Cancerians are necessarily lacking in tenacity in their romantic relationships. Forever devoted to those they love, they’re capable of long-lasting loyalty, with a reluctance to break up an established relationship – especially a live-in one – however tough it gets.
On the whole, Crabs are clingy creatures. Their emotional and domestic security is far too important to them for them easily to let go, and once their strong tentacles are entwined around you, it can be hard to prise yourself free. Just as it takes a long time for a Cancerian to welcome you into their inner circle, it can also take quite a while for them to accept you may no longer want to be a part of their life.