Libra Man Lover
Libra co-rules Venus along with Taurus. These lovely creatures love balance. They love to give, but because of their diplomatic nature, they expect there to be reciprocity as well. If you want to please your Libra, be fair. Rub her back; this is an excellent way to get your Libras juices flowing. It’s the give and take in a relationship that turns these lovely ones on. And they love to play games. In the bedroom, that is. Pretend you’re a Martian and she’s a Venutian and you’ll have her phoning home…to cancel all her other appointments just to be with you.
Libras are extremely selective for all that. But they’ll do anything for you. They’re sweet and shy and loving. While Leos are accused of not being able to tell the difference between sex and love, it’s actually Libra who has this little problem. If it can truly be called a problem. For Libra, sex is love, and vice versa. They love sex. And they show their love, often times, through their sexual natures. But being an air sign has them dwelling in their heads, so like Geminis, they may talk while they’re making love, and not understand why you’ve just lost the moment. They’re very practical, but they like to be romanced. And they love to learn. So give your Libra a book or DVD on sexual positions and suggest that you watch or read it together. What could be more romantic?
In Love, Libras are one of the most romantic and soft-hearted of the zodiac. They adore being happily coupled. A true child of Venus, a Libra is in love with the idea of loving someone and being loved. Falling in love with love, the Libra born romantics will be quick to find a partner, even if they are not the perfect match. They are so anxious to share their life that they may rush into and emotional relationship before they are ready for it.
The Libra indecisiveness can be hurtful in a relationship. Rather than tell their partner earlier on that the relationship has no chance of going anywhere, they avoid hurting the person’s feelings and carry out in the partnership. It would be better for their partner if they were honest rather, then leading them on.
Libras are the sign of partnerships and marriage. They have a great need for love and frequently do not feel complete until they are settled in a permanent relationship. They are happiest functioning within a union, and often will lose their equilibrium and positive outlook when forced to be alone. When in a serious relationship their romantic tendencies can become rather dominating, sometimes blinding them of reality.
When a Libra falls in love they will give a great deal of themselves, doing everything in their power to please their partner. Libras need to be appreciated, even adored at times. They respond well to admiration and can never hear enough about their finest qualities. Libras love the finer things in life and have high standards.
Most Libra woman prefer romance to sex. She wants all the vices of romance … the flowers, candy, champagne, travel, etc. Sometimes the emotional demands can be a bit overwhelming for her and when this happens she may have a difficult time understanding the emotional needs of her partner. Also, once her need to razzle and dazzle her lover is complete she begins to lose interest … unless she is ready for her next performance of enchantment.
A Libra man will spend an enormous amount of time and energy in cultivating a relationship. He desires a story book love affair, perfect in every way. No romantic gesture will be missed by him. Elegant and charming, with a refined esthetic sense, the Libra man will enjoy the pleasures of life with his partner.
Due to the Libran nature, their scales cause them to change from being fair and gentle to immediately becoming very argumentative. Listen to their side and they will quickly retreat back to their gentle manner. They are usually calm, and dislike fighting, however their ability to see both sides of a situation gives them a tendency to debate and argue. Their motivation is a desire to be fair.
In love, Libras are superb listeners. A lover who can keep up with the social life of the Libra will be a good match. Libras specialize in fairness, justice and harmony. They expect their relationships to be balanced, with an equal give and take. This is very important to the health and well-being of a relationship with a Libra.
The Libra does not like being single or staying home by themselves. They serve their highest potential when in a partnership. Built for teamwork they will often love to play games as a team, start a business together or any other pursuit that involves working together.
The Libra desires sexual experiences to be romantic and sensual, with a strong mental connection between them and their partner. A love of luxury, Libras love silk sheets and candles. Creating a romantic environment will make a Libra feel more comfortable in bed and they will be more adventurous and creative when love making.
Libra’s interest in sex usually starts early. Because relationships are of such major significance to those born under this sign, many Librans find themselves a boyfriend or girlfriend at an early age. From then onwards they’re never without a "significant other" for more than about five minutes. A single Libran rarely feels complete: they’re always searching for their other half to balance them out.
It’s not necessarily the physical aspect of sex that appeals most to these people, though. As an Air sign, a strong mental connection and good communication in a romantic relationship is equally – if not more – important than sexual desire to Libra. What a Libran is looking for is not just a lover, but someone who will also be their closest friend.
What you need to understand is that the aspect of give and take is fundamental to Librans. Sexually they aim to provide full satisfaction and will expect the same in return. They’re happy to be either on the giving end or the receiving end of sex – all that matters is that things are fair and equal. Coarseness and aggression is a big-turn off, though: Libra isn’t a sign that likes to play rough.
One of the easiest star signs to fall in love with, it’s hard not to be seduced by that irresistible Libran smile. Don’t let their flirtatiousness give you the wrong idea though. Libras are charming and friendly with almost everyone, and simply because they chatted you up, it doesn’t mean they want to jump into bed with you now.
It’s easy to get your sexual wires badly crossed with this sign. Often accused of lacking in sincerity, it’s simply that Librans’ charm and politeness sometimes prevent them from being honest and outspoken. Rather than rudely tell you to get lost, they would rather smooth things over: harmony means too much to most Librans to risk an ugly scene.
Knowing where you stand with a Libran can be very confusing. Their notorious indecisiveness – the result of their tendency always to weigh issues lengthily in the balance – and their pathological difficulty in saying yes or no make it hard for others to understand what they want sexually at times, and even harder for them!
Generally good looking, with a great sense of style and the best one-on-one skills in the Zodiac, it’s not surprising that Libra is among the star signs most in demand as a date. In fact the biggest mistake you can make with a Libran is to neglect them or leave them on their own for long. You’ll be replaced before you know it: their love life is far too important to them to waste time crying when there are so many more fish in the sea.