Pisces Man Lover
Pisces men are Spiritual lover. Or should we say, those who prefer illusion to reality. Tantric or any type of spiritually-related sex is a big turn on for these sweeties. Pisceans are the really shy ones of the Zodiac. Fishies are usually sensitive just about anywhere on their bodies, but especially their feet. Suck their toes or rub their feet and your Fishy will swim upstream for you. They love to be dominated, even male Pisceans. They want to know that they are loved and adored and desired. And they’re more than willing to reciprocate the romance, as long as they don’t feel that they’re being coerced. Then they balk.
Pisceans, like their sister sign, Cancer, are caretakers. They love to cook for their loved ones, and in the bedroom, incorporating food into their lovemaking is not unheard of. Like the fish glyph indicates, sometimes they don’t know if they’re coming or going, and in fact can be a bit spacey. But don’t confuse this with dim-wittedness. They are anything but. In fact, they may act more like Gemini with their dual natures than like Pisces. One moment they can be totally hot and turned on, and the next completely indifferent. Most Pisceans love deeply, but many also aren’t quite convinced that they’re worthy of this love.
In love, Pisces’ charisma comes to the front of their personality. The twelfth sign has a sensitive and deep appreciation for the inner qualities of their lover. Those born from the twelfth sign are happiest when in a loving relationship or involved in a creative project. Eternally romantic, Pisces enjoys the wine and dine and everything in-between when in a relationship. Every part of the Piscean nature is laced with romance.
In search for the perfect love, a Pisces can easily have several love affairs and marriages before they finally settle down … if they do at all. They may lose their heart many times to the wrong person. A Pisces likes to have a lover by their side. They do not like being alone.
The mysterious and enchanting nature of the Pisces-born is much like an aphrodisiac … attractive and magnetic. Pisceans live in a world of dreams and romance. One way to win the heart of a Pisces is to appeal to their romantic nature. Take them out to the ballet, theater or an older classic film. Never fall short in the romance department … it is important to them.
Often a Pisces will apologize unnecessarily for themselves in the company of a loved one, as they are inclined to underestimate their charms. If this Piscean tendency bothers you, let them know. The complicated Pisces is not always straight forward in communication. They have a mysterious way of uncovering the secret’s that lie beneath a persons’ social mask. Their psychic vision sees through the real motives of others.
A Pisces man can be extremely difficult to get to commit. He will often desire to be with one woman, yet conflicting desires make it difficult to find what he is looking for. He may prefer secret affairs and married women early on in his life. Piscean men have an instinct for choosing the wrong woman. Often times the right one chooses him however. If he ever does settle down, he will need a woman who is grounding, to help keep him balanced. Once he commits himself he will do almost anything for the woman he cares about.
Pisceans must be careful in their approach to emotional relationships. They may find it difficult to cope with the practical aspects of a relationship, especially when married. They can sometimes be overly critical about trivial details when it comes to their partner. The Pisces-born are extremely loving individuals with great capacity for a close emotionally intimate relationship with their partner. Soulful and compassionate Pisces makes a great lover. They often will follow their heart without question.
Often Pisces will regret getting involved in a relationship years later, after the rose-colored glasses that they wear throughout life begin to lose their ability to focus. When they see their relationship without the glasses, the raw truth … they often feel as though they have made a mistake. Pisces has a penchant for picking the wrong companions and a tendency to flee from what they do not want to deal with. They are prone to alcohol and drug dependency and addiction problems.
Pisces love to help and assist their partner in anyway that they can. They are sacrificial to the point of neglecting their own needs and will bend over backwards for their lover … as long as they feel safe and secure emotionally in the relationship. They have a tender and sympathetic understanding for anything and anyone hurting, especially their partner. It will appear as though the Pisces reads the mind and heart of their lover. They feel the pain of those they care about.
It is important that a Pisces receives plenty of encouragement and moral support so that their creative potential can be developed. Reminders and compliments about earlier achievements can work wonders for a Pisces. Considered the most impressionable sign of the zodiac, it is imperative that they surround themselves with those who honor them and treat them well. Pisces-born individuals are thin-skinned and sensitive. Their feelings are easily hurt, so be sure to apologize if you think you may have offended them. Criticism can easily scar the Pisces, especially when made by someone whom they love and are close to. Impressionable Pisces often end up taking on the beliefs, values and habits of their partner over time.
Ruled by Neptune, the planet of mystery and illusion, the Piscean nature has a desire to be swept away by a storybook romance. Dreamy-eyed Pisces are mystical and mysterious. They have an innate love for the spiritual realms and love to share this passion with their partner. Most Pisceans will be involved in spiritualism or the occult. Pisceans flow back and forth like water, sometimes warm and sometimes cold. They may withdrawal and if they do, do not take it personally. They will eventually reach out or be receptive to phone calls.
A relationship with a Pisces can be a romance that is easygoing, sensual and full of gestures of love. The ideal match for a Pisces is someone who is a little more grounded than they are, as Pisces is often visiting another realm. As with other areas of the Piscean life, love is filled with fantasy and dreaminess.
The Pisces sexual nature is unconventional and they make wonderful lovers. They have a need to lose themselves in the clutches of their lover, uniting in a mystical communion. Extremely sensual, romantic and emotional, lovemaking with the mystic will connect you to deeper parts of yourself and the spiritual nature of life. It is much more than just a physical act. Pisceans are naturals when it comes to spiritual lovemaking. They are a sensuous, understanding and innovative lover who is considerate of their partner and not insistent on getting their own way.
It’s the most mystical and other-worldly of the star signs. So it’s not surprising that for people born under Pisces, at its best sex is about losing themselves in a true spiritual at-oneness – and a lot more than just a physical thing. The sign most likely to make the earth move for you, there can be something magical about love with a Pisces, and it’s perilously easy to fall under their spell.
Masters of the art of seduction, Pisceans know how to capture your heart by spinning an irresistible web of enchantment, scattering a little stardust in your eyes, and making you fall hopelessly in love. It’s easy to get carried away by a Piscean’s beautiful dreams, but it’s wise never to take them too seriously. There’s always an element of unreality about love with Pisces and it’s never exactly what it seems.
However, close you may think you are to a Pisces, there will usually be something they haven’t told you – and a part of them that forever remains concealed. These people are quite shy about revealing themselves to others and need their privacy. Big daydreamers, Pisceans tend to spend a lot of time in a world of their own they’ll rarely let you into. If and when they decide to do so, it’s a sure sign that they’re in love.
With their powerful escapist urge, Pisceans enjoy sexual fantasy and for many, the love adventures they live out in their imagination can actually be preferable to the real thing. Intensely romantic, it can be hard for them to find a real-life sexual relationship that fulfils their lofty ideals. Although a Piscean will tend to fall in love very easily, disillusionment can follow on just as fast, as their dreams come tumbling down.
What you need to understand is that Pisceans are probably the most emotionally vulnerable, and by far the most easily hurt, of all the star signs. But because they’re usually very forgiving – and their feelings can change like lightning – their bouts of self-pity are often short-lived and their trust and idealism quickly restored. Sexually, Pisces’s characteristic selflessness makes it more of a giver than a taker, and with a strong desire to please.
Although it tends to be sexually submissive by nature, its love of role play – at which it can be very talented – and its chameleon-like adaptability means that sexually Pisces can be anything you want it to be. Guided by its powerful intuition and sensitivity, this star sign makes a gentle and thoughtful lover. Pity it’s also so darned elusive and notoriously hard to pin down!