Scorpio Man Lover
Scorpio rules, among other things, sex, as does its ruling planet, Pluto. And are they powerful in bed! The best lovers of the Zodiac, when it comes to passion, Scorpio is definitely the best. Depending on their maturity level and knowledge, they can be Sexual Gurus. Scorpios are fixated on having their sexual organs stimulated. The word ‘addict’ doesn’t even come close to what Scorpio generally is where sex is concerned. And talk about kinky! Scorpio invented kinky! They’ll try it any which way you’d like. In fact, they probably invented it! Did I say that they’re powerful? They love power and control. Scorpios love to play games. Naughty games. They’ll only give you what you want in the bedroom if they think you deserve it. And the way to deserve it is to do anything they demand of you.
Scorps have nebulous imaginations. But you’d never know it, unless you’re lucky enough to be part of their private world. They usually don’t talk about their love. That’s their little secret. Which is something else Scorpio rules: secrets. And they generally have lots of them. In love, they can be extremely jealous, possessive and vindictive. Don’t make a Scorpion jealous or angry or you’ll feel their sting. “Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned” was probably referring to a Scorpio. Yet even male Scorpios can be as scornful of a lover’s seeming duplicity. If you’re wise, you’ll double-check your synastry with this wily creature before you choose to invest in a relationship with them and you’d better hope that you don’t have a Fatal Attraction connection. If you do, run for the hills – NOW – because they’ll never let you go once they get their hands on you. The upside is, they are absolutely brilliant in bed and will have you begging for more. They’re devoted in love, though not necessarily faithful. But if they love you, you’ll be a cherished possession.
In love, Scorpios enjoy the physical part of the relationship immensely. They adore sex, intimacy, emotional depth and basking in orgasmic energy. Scorpio’s powerful emotional level finds a positive outlet through sex. In an intimate relationship, you must expose your hidden self. Exposure of your true self is what intimacy is all about. In a relationship a Scorpio is not just participating in a partnership, rather they are fusing with their lover. Noted for their unpredictability, a relationship with a Scorpio will be anything but ordinary … reaching a depth that is transformational and spiritual.
Scorpios are intense, passionate and extremely physical in love. They will transform their lover, changing them in a way where they will never be the same. Determined, elusive, magnetic and oh so sexy, Scorpios are often quiet, however they are quick to reveal deeper layers of themselves to someone who has the depth to really hear what they are saying. They love to be listened too and know when someone is pretending and lacking integrity and honesty.
It can often solicit trouble, when trying to figure out a Scorpio, whose feelings and thoughts are kept secret, because it causes one to guess. Often these guesses are incorrect, merely projections of ones fears, hopes and insecurities. Although it takes a while to get to know a Scorpio, if you really listen to them they will reveal to you only the truth, making it easier to understand their complex nature. Scorpios speak with integrity, honesty and directness.
If they desire to have you, their magnetism with pull you near. They will cast a spell with their hypnotic eyes and will be very determined to have you. Fascinating and irresistible to the apple of their eye, Scorpios are mysterious with a magical quality about them. They are difficult to get close to and trust will not come easily, however once they open up and lower their defences, they expect their vulnerability to be respected and taken good care of.
It takes a man who knows how to hold his own to win the heart of a Scorpio woman. The Scorpion man makes a woman feel as though she is the very best she can be. He likes a woman to have a sexual undertone, that is only for him. This sign can see through a person and perceive all of their hidden insecurities and motives … You may learn more about yourself than you knew before. That is, if they share what they see.
A Scorpio can be very generous, loving, kind and loyal. Their are few people in the world that really matter to them. If they care about someone they can be very sacrificing, bending over backwards at times, proving their devotion, loyalty and the depth of their relationship. Once betrayed, however the Scorpio relationship will change quickly and permanently. Best advice when in a relationship with a Scorpio … be good to them and they will be exceptional to you. Never lie to them. They value honesty and will settle for no less.
For the eighth sign of the zodiac trust is everything, something that may take time to develop. They can be very suspicious, jealous, possessive and demanding, commanding their partner to comfort them, please them and make them feel safe, secure and unified in the relationship. Their magnetism is electric. Their emotional intensity is hypnotic and penetrating. Their depth is immeasurable, bottomless.
A natural love for the occult, sex magic, death and all things of shadow, Scorpios are anything but mundane. They have X-ray eyes, turning everything they look at into a transparent image that reveals all. They project an aura of mystery and power.
In love, Scorpios have abundant emotional strength and courage. A sense of purpose is important to them and in love that purpose is intimacy and union. They want to know their partner in and out. Ruled by Mars, the god of war, and Pluto, the ancient god of the netherworld and of the dead, Scorpios energy has a passionate and hot interior beneath a cool and calm exterior.
Nothing brings out the extremes of the Scorpio character as much as sex. This sign is exciting in the bedroom … iconic in their natural lovemaking abilities. The art of the tantra comes effortless to the Scorpion born, as sex takes on unusual depth, laced in spirituality, erotic bliss and ecstasy. Irresistibly hypnotic with an extraordinary sexual magnetism and eyes that penetrate to the core, Scorpio can see straight through to your soul. Scorpio energy can be quite aggressive and they may enjoy rough sex. In lovemaking, they will read your mind.
There’s something irresistibly hypnotic about Scorpios that gives them an extraordinary sexual magnetism. With those penetrating eyes that seem to see straight through to your soul, they can quickly gain a strange kind of sexual hold over you. It’s dangerously easy to fall madly in love with this star sign. It’s much harder, however, to get a Scorpio to fall in love with you.
The average Scorpio makes it quite difficult for others to get close to them. Because trust doesn’t come easily to this sign, it takes a lot for Scorpios to open up and lower their defences, giving them an air of mystery and reserve which can be very sexually attractive and compelling. The challenge of finding out what lies beneath Scorpio’s icy cool self-control is what hooks many people in.
If Scorpios give the impression of being emotionally cold and calculating at times, it’s only because they experience things so intensely and they’re terrified of getting hurt. Still waters run deep – and as the fixed water sign, Scorpio’s true feelings are powerful, all-consuming and profound. In reality this is the most passionate star sign, with a well-earned reputation as the Zodiac’s most accomplished lover.
Scorpios’ sexual stamina is legendary, and it’s often said that once you’ve made love with a Scorpio, any other sign will always be second best. Sex, for Scorpio, is something to be taken seriously – a path to the ecstasy of spiritual oneness achieved through mutual surrender. It’s also a vital release for the pent-up emotions which Scorpios find so hard to express, for which reason sex is something most of them need lots of in their life.
What you need to understand is that, when a Scorpio has fully committed to love, they’re capable of great sexual loyalty and devotion. In their eyes, it’s forever, and with their all or nothing approach, they can be pretty obsessive. The greater a Scorpio’s sense of insecurity – which will depend on how much they’ve been hurt in the past – the more likely it is that this sign’s notorious jealousy and need for control will tend to surface.
For some, Scorpio’s full-on approach can be a huge sexual turn-on. For others it’s a bit too hot to handle and the source of a lot of anguish. Cross swords with those born under the sign of Scorpio and you’ll always come out the loser. The only way to deal with their emotional neediness is to offer them ongoing reassurance and concrete proof of your love – and boy, do they take some convincing!