Virgo Man Lover
This is the sign of ‘service to others’ and that’s exactly what Virgo does. Virgos will cater to your every whim just to make sure that you’re satisfied. They’ll watch you closely to make sure that what they’re doing is turning you on. Virgos are attracted to those they feel are the underdogs or who seem to be invisible to others and like Cancers, are attracted to ‘fixer-uppers.’
Though Virgo is the ‘virgin’, don’t let them fool you. They’re very seldom ever virginal or innocent. They are generally insatiable where sex is concerned, and are just as kinky as Scorpios or Leos in the bedroom. Adult flicks are not beyond them, and they love to watch, mainly to learn, but for the sensual pleasure of it as well. Virgos have a difficult time receiving, since their focus is usually on their partner. But when they allow themselves to receive, they’re not above a little whipped cream or other culinary foreplay. Tread lightly with the Virgo heart. They have feelings just like the rest of the signs and don’t like to be led on. If you love them, tell them so; and you’d better mean it. Otherwise, as far as they’re concerned, you can hit the road. They don’t like wasting their time on someone who isn’t truthful with their feelings.
In love, a Virgo will be discriminating, picky and will take time to find a partner. A bit of a loner, a Virgo will be more than happy to simply stay single, until the right person comes along. Elusive and critical, Virgos are a hard one to catch. When dating they can be extremely quiet, especially a female Virgo, taking much time to open up. They can appear mysterious because they are so quiet and reserved and love to spend time alone. People wonder what they do with all that time alone.
Usually not the mushy type, Virgo will display their love with an unending devotion and a joy of making their partner happy. Virgo glows when they are doing something useful and helpful for their partner and love certainly brings out the very best in this sign.
They are extremely discriminating, picky about everything from food, to cleanliness, clothing and partners. When dating a Virgo, be sure to take them out for dinner, they love food, but first ask if they have any favorite restaurants or kinds of foods. They love health food also, and would enjoy the local health food shop for an afternoon outing. Their consciousness toward what they eat will be sure to rub off on their partner.
A Virgo man will be drawn to a woman who is vivacious and effusive because he does not find it easy to express his own deep feelings. A Virgo woman will wait along time for Mr. Right, preferring to be engulfed in a good book rather than a relationship that is half-hearted.
The quintessential Virgo has a serene, classic repose that may seem a bit remote and unreachable but will pour out from a rich treasury of love, once their emotions are unlocked. Falling in love can take a long time however for a Virgo. They believe in true love! Virgos tend to withdrawal emotionally and can appear cold and distant, although they are really very warm with a desire to be of service to those they care about.
They will come into their power when they love themselves unconditionally. Although they do not wear their heart on their sleeve, they have a rich, lasting and enduring love for anyone who touches their heart. Virgo exists in the mind … everything is inside. If you can stir their emotions they will connect with you immediately.
The high standards of the Virgo may be a bit of a challenge, yet you can be assured that they will bring out the very brightest within their lover, if they allow them to. They have a tendency to criticize, especially their partner, but their only intention in doing so is to help. They simply cannot help but notice the faults of others.
When offering them a dose of their own criticizing medicine, however, beware, as they do not like to hear about their faults. If you push them with their weaknesses too hard they may become depressed and beat themselves up consistently. Use grace when addressing certain need-to-know weaknesses to a Virgo, but also listen attentively when they offer you their much cherished discerning critique.
Virgos are usually not lavish with affection or spending money. Prudent, they give love quietly, but not to demonstrative. A female Virgo will be especially modest in her style of dress, revealing her sexier side only to a man she truly loves. Male Virgos are especially attracted to a sweet woman, whose modesty and intelligence invite him to get to know her more. If you treat a Virgo well, they will treat you even better …
One night stands are usually not their style. They make great spouses because they excel at saving money and keeping the home in order. The Virgos are the natural healers of the zodiac and will take very good care of their loved ones if they should fall ill. They are extremely devoted and will put everything into the relationship, with an undying love that conquers even the toughest of hardships … as long as their partner is good to them and treats them well.
A Virgo will react coolly to mush affection. They are loving and caring and their main way of expressing love is through unselfish devotion. Often a Virgo will do more for you than themselves. They will do more for your needs than their own. Their feelings will be steady, as they are extremely dependable, disciplined, hardworking and responsible.
Once committed, a Virgo will blossom, making a loving and devoted companion. This is especially apparent when Virgo’s partner is ill, bringing out the natural nurturer, healer and purity of heart in the Virgo. Loyal, dependable and considerate, a Virgo will remember the important dates … anniversaries, etc. A warm, loving relationship brings out the best in anyone born under this sign because Virgo is extremely kind and devoted to their lover.
When the affections of a Virgo are engaged they will tirelessly serve their partner, with a strength and persistence that endures even through emotional and economical hardship. In bed, a Virgo will instinctively be responsive to the needs of their partner. As time progresses sex with a Virgo will become more sensual and engaging. Straightforward and direct, Virgo usually plays things safe with simple moves. They can become a little more experimental with time however, but mainly have a gentle, reserved and classic style.
Let’s start by clearing up a common misunderstanding. Virgos get just as much sex as anyone else and there are no more virgins among those born under this star sign than any other sign of the Zodiac. The purity associated with Virgo relates simply to these people’s impeccable standards: when seeking a long-term sexual partner, they tend to be extremely fussy about who measures up and who does not.
What you need to know is that, surprisingly, Virgo is actually quite a sensual sign. Like all the earth signs, it has a pronounced affinity with the physical aspect of sex. What’s more, the emphasis it places on detail and its fascination with learning techniques gives its lovemaking an unusual finesse. The Virgoan mantra of ‘practice makes perfect’ is something it’s happy to apply diligently to its sex life.
So to what, then, does Virgo owe its prudish reputation? Well, the analytical nature of this star sign does mean it tends to come across as rather cool and unromantic. Virgos are people who fret a lot about getting things right – especially where sex is concerned. When they’re making love, they’re more likely to be thinking about how they can improve their sexual performance rather than expressing their feelings.
Bear in mind too that, because this star sign is highly fastidious by nature, the messy side of sex can be a bit of a turn-off for Virgoans. As people who hate to get dirty, hygiene and cleanliness are more of a big deal for them than for most other signs. Sex, for Virgo, is sometimes less about passionate self-abandon and more of a clinical exercise.
This doesn’t necessarily mean, however, that Virgo is a cold sign. It’s just that many Virgos aren’t particularly comfortable with demonstrative displays of emotion or dramatic, over-the-top outbursts. Normally quite shy by nature, they prefer to express their affection in tangible, down-to-earth ways: love for them is about actions, not just empty words.
Big worriers who don’t find it easy to show their feelings, Virgos are prone to internalizing their anxieties about their physical desirability – frequently making themselves ill in the process – and can often be a bit uptight around sex. To balance this, they need lots of reassurance that they’re actually perfectly okay!