Scorpio Man and Gemini Woman
No two signs are as contrasting in their characteristics as a Scorpio man and a Gemini woman. Though you will find them both at two separate ends of a rope at all times, there will be occasions where they will come together in harmony. This pair is often volatile and is at loggerheads with each other but with careful, considerate communication, they make for a “real couple”. Though everything for a couple is not rosy, the Scorpio man and the Gemini woman will be true testaments to this as they will face more trials than any other couple in the zodiac calendar.
A Scorpio man is known for his passion as well as his jealousy. There is a fine line between passion and obsession and a Scorpio man can often cross this unknowingly which leads him to portray strong symptoms of jealousy. When this happens, it may seem acceptable at first and may not shock the Gemini woman. She may misconstrue it as an act of love and let it go. But as she settles in the relationship, she will notice extreme bouts of envy that she will not like. She may even leave the scoprio man because of his irrational behavior.
Since the Gemini woman has a social calendar and life that is insanely busy on any given day, she will not care much for any disturbances. She will want to keep her schedule as it is and any changes in it will bring out a cranky side in her. A Gemini woman will want to keep busy at all times and will make an effort to do so whether or not she has work that needs attention. Do things her way and you will be in her good books. Try and change her or persuade her to mend her ways and she will almost certainly kick you out.
Thus, when a Scorpio man and a Gemini woman come together, they do inspire a few fireworks, but they don’t go off for the good reasons. A Scorpio man’s jealous nature will reach new heights when he sees his Gemini girl flirt aimlessly at a party. He will also try and curb her exploratory nature but will end up getting hurt himself because a Gemini woman will take a beating from no one but her closest aide. It will be very difficult to get a Gemini woman to change her ways and become adaptable but if she does so, she can help change the equation of a strained relationship.
A Scorpio man and a Gemini woman will not even share the same level of excitement and chemistry in bed because they will both want different things from their partners. A Gemini woman will look at love making like a typical man - with no strings attached and a casual attitude that lets her enjoy the experience but not the baggage that comes with it. However, the Scorpio man will be involved to a deep extent in the relationship which will make him see lovemaking as an experience that will be more than just enjoying each other physically.
A lot of conversations and maturity coupled with tolerance is required for this relationship to work in the best possible way. If it doesn’t get the desired amount of care, it will disintegrate just as easily as it integrated.
Scorpio Man and Gemini Woman Compatibility
There are about five people present in this relationship. It’s a box inside an enigma inside a mystery. The trouble is that it’s hard to catch everybody at home at the same time. It’s definitely a costume party, which remains a party as long as no one has to take their mask off.
How to Attract to a Gemini Woman as a Scorpio Man
Have you ever tried to squish an ant at a picnic? You know the way you have to chase it with your eyes and hands at the same time? That is what it is like trapping the beautiful Gemini creature who is as alluring as a butterfly. Long periods of intense waiting and watching must be followed by deft acts and deeds. This lady, one of the most desirable in the zodiac, is as hard to pin down as quicksilver, her mercurial ruler, which is exactly what you need to lighten you up in the right way. Besides, the fascination is undeniable.
How to Attract a Scorpio Man as a Gemini Woman
Gemini women hardly need advice on how to catch a man, or at least catch his eye. There is something about you like a worm on the end of a hook that lures the big fish. Scorpio, being a deep creature, is utterly fascinated by your superficiality and allure. The more mercurial you can be, the better, even to the point of being purposely irresponsible about small and inconsequential things – be a little bit late, be hard to catch on the phone, say “I’ll get back to you” a lot, be willing to disappear. All your beautiful words and verbal ability mean absolutely nothing to him, but he will be transfixed by the sound of your voice.
Degree of Romance
This can be an incredibly romantic combination. No one knows the act of flirtation like a Gemini, and Scorpio is the perfect instrument to play to. The Gemini woman can never ever be possessed by the Scorpio man (despite his deepest desire), and she will find the intensity of his intentions inconsequential and humorous. It is the stuff great operas are written about. The potential for Scorpio’s suffering is immense.
Degree of Passion
There is a tremendous degree of passion possible, but unfortunately it is one-sided. Geminis don’t digest passion well. It is never their first choice on the menu. Scorpios live for passion. Is this a good mix?
Degree of Friendship
Oddly enough this pair can give each other a merry chase intellectually and they can entertain each other endlessly with a running commentary on the foibles of human nature. They make great traveling companions on the journey of life. Her wit complements his perceptiveness for some great “aha” moments. This couple will enjoy talking about other people immensely and trying to dissect their motives.
Degree of Marriage
This couple has the downside of sticking together through thick and thin to the point of real pain and absurdity. There may be a constant diet of betrayal, painful and unnecessary confrontations, ridicule, sarcasm, and vendetta, and yet the relationship endures. This is not the best recipe for mental health.
Progression of Relationship
You know how you stare at the chess board at the beginning of the game trying to figure out what your strategy is? Figure two people doing that at the same time and then changing their strategy in response to the other person’s every move. The possibility of mind games is absolutely boggling and this may take the place of an erotic connection.