How to Seduce a Capricorn Man
Capricorns are known for their determined ambition. They make good partners for someone whose goals are of long range material stability. Although Capricorns can sometimes be called materialistic, this need derives from their deep rooted need of stability and their own responsible need to ensure stability for themselves and their loved ones (offspring).
Unlike many signs, Capricorns aren’t likely to fall hard and fast, usually preferring to fall into ’friendship’ first. Once friendship is established and they are more comfortable, then if/when physical attraction exists, things progress from there. Capricorns make friends slowly and can be seen as somewhat aloof to those not in their inner circle, which of course can pique serious interest in the challenge this presents.
Securing their affections may be a slow process but it is just a generic form of getting to know you and feeling comfortable which they need. Once they are interested and at ease, they are steadfast in their need to have a relationship. Capricorns can be stubborn and this serves them well as they generally succeed in attaining what they want. Slow and steady is their way in the romance department.
Starting Capricorn Man Relationships
It does not look like but Capricorn men are romantic at heart. Surprising isn’t it? But true. Once they decide to commit to a relationship, they stay in it. His reasoning is that once he found a good woman there is no need to look for another one. It makes him a rock in relationships. Trustworthy, stable, confident and calm.
However before you get to that point, you will need to be patient. Very patient. This is a very cautious sign and needs to be sure that you are genuinely interested in him before he will open up to you. He is not a complicated man, but relationships are not his priority. Career, accomplishments and responsibilities are. If you can respect that and help him, you are on your way to seduce him.
To get past his barriers, make sure he knows about your professional life. Show him that you are a hardworking woman with goals, ambitions and projects. And above anything else, present yourself as somebody stable, serious that can provide him with the security he craves.
Try to emulate his maturity if you can. Nothing else will make a Capricorn man want to enter a relationship as having someone as reserved as they are. Conversely showing immature behavior will likely make him uncomfortable and doubtful about the relationship.
First Moves with Capricorn Man
Capricorn men are very sensitive to status. Therefore, a classy, traditional restaurant with good food and good prices is your best choice. Nothing exotic, please! A steak house with plenty of meat and potato will do just fine.
Dress appropriately. Stylish but classy. Elegant but understated. Functional but expensive. Show him you know how to be your best on a budget. Of course, manners are essential. Prove to him that he can take you out in the world without embarrassing him. On the contrary, show him that you can be an asset in his career!
Winning a Capricorn Man Heart
Mind you, it’s not going to be easy! Mostly because a Capricorn man is going to have walls up. He tends to go through life guarded and not letting anyone come too close, so you will have to be pretty persistent to change that. When I say persistent I definitely don’t mean pushy, as we’ve already established – being forced into something doesn’t sit well with the Capricorn man.
What you have to know is that the calm, realistic almost distant and cold exterior is mainly just the packaging to what’s inside, and that is a romantic, charming softy who seeks admiration just as much as the next guy. It’s important to always keep this in mind, cause it may seem that compliments and all the flirty little things you’re doing aren’t really getting to him at all. Trust me he’s getting it, he only doesn’t quite know how to acknowledge it and react. This is why he may come off as conceded, when in fact he’s just shy.
The thing is that even when you’ve got him as your boyfriend he won’t wear his heart on his sleeve.
He’s only a romantic in heart, but don’t ever expect him to encourage public displays of emotion, or be the one to make some huge romantic gesture that’ll show the world how much he loves you. That’s just not his style. In fact it’s like he finds that those charades only belittle the love you have and it’s best to keep it between the two of you.
So, since it’s just not his style to be outwardly generous with emotions, even in a relationship, it’s understandable that you’ll have a tough time trying to get to him in the first place. The key is to stay at it. Show him you care enough to get through. Show him you see more in him than what he shows!
You can impress a Capricorn with your manners and class. Family is very important to them so in the back of his mind he’s always looking for a girl that will sit well with his family, be a good wife, mother, companion. The girl he falls in love with is special, gentle, loving and caring.
With Capricorns it just gets better with time. The more you invest in your relationship the richer it’ll be. In the end, isn’t it true that the best things aren’t always apparent, but hidden and tucked away for those that are worthy of finding them? Well that’s how it is with a Capricorn man.