Virgo Man and Pisces Woman
A Pisces woman is the epitome of feminine grace. She is a lady on the outside, which means you will rarely see her dress up in manly overcoats or even simple tee-shirts and a lady at heart too. She is excessively emotional and unpractical. However, do not let her feminine charm get the better of you because she is manipulative like no other. She is fun and interesting to be around because she gives you the impression that she is interested in what you have to say and do. She is also very malleable, which means that if you say you want to eat Chinese today, she won’t express her opinion which may state that she would rather have Italian. She will compromise more than most other signs in the zodiac.
This nature of a Pisces woman holds the key to the Virgo man and Pisces woman relationship. If the two individuals find interest within each other’s lives, it will primarily be due to the Pisces woman’s “eager to know all” nature. A Virgo man will open up to her without inhibitions because he will feel relaxed and comfortable around her. He won’t question her actions but will flow with them, eventually giving her control over his life. However, a Virgo man will soon realize what has happened and will try and fight back to gain control. This rash act may get him negative points because by the time he takes action, he will not be in a position to gain the upper hand.
While there may be plenty of love in this relationship to keep it going, there isn’t much practicality here. Though the Virgo man is full upto the brim with realistic views, his counterpart - the Pisces woman will be less than a handful. Her heart will overflow with emotion and will spray gooey mushy love all over his realism. This will definitely not go down well with him and will become a sore bone of contention between the two individuals.
The Virgo man will find a pleasant mate in a Pisces woman despite these shortcomings. He selfish, critical exterior will open up to gentle, charismatic behavior when in the presence of a Pisces woman and he will go beyond his way to impress her completely. She will fall for his attitude and personality and will ensure that she lets him dangle a little before accepting his proposal for a date or even marriage. Though she may seem aloof when topics of dating and marriage may surface, make no mistake in judging that feeling because she is waiting for you to pop the question.
Her calm demeanor may fool you, but be wise and follow your heart once. She will welcome you with open arms and will keep you despite all your flaws. When a Virgo man knows this, he may take undue advantage of that but if he makes it work for himself, this quality of a Pisces woman will most definitely be the reason for their survival together.
Virgo Man and Pisces Woman Compatibility
Virgo man and Pisces woman is one of the most challenging combinations in the zodiac. The attraction can be very strong, but for all the wrong reasons. As you know, the Virgo-Pisces Axis has to do with mental health and pycho-soma (mind-body) connections. Further, Virgo is the sign that is associated with order and correctness while Pisces is associated with chaos and Dionysian frenzy of the emotions. Lastly, there is a tendency in young marriages for men to project all of their emotional issues on to the woman they choose. Virgo is actually defending against chaos which means he is vulnerable to emotional upset and disorders because nowhere in life is there order except that which is imposed. Pisces lives in a world of natural chaos and is typically happy there, but if and when a Virgo man who is uptight or one-dimensional (a common characteristic) chooses a Pisces women because she is somewhat out-of-control and drifting in a sea of emotion, they can polarize badly. A common archetype would be Socrates and his wife Xantippe. The more rational and logical Socrates became, or tried to become, the crazier and wilder Xantippe became, until she became the epitome of the shrieking, hysterical woman. Not every Virgo man and Pisces woman will play this out but the name of the game can be “Who’s Got the Mental Illness?”
How to Attract a Pisces Woman as a Virgo Man
Offer to fix everything you notice is wrong — her car, her budget, her job, her relationship with her mother. Be a little bit remote but gentlemanly. Show your natural kindness. Be very, very, very patient when she is late, loses her way, loses her car keys, doesn’t remember where she parked her car, forgets what day of the week it is … you get my drift. In return, this lovely lady will be the epitome of romance. Just handle her tenderly.
How to Attract a Virgo Man as a Pisces Woman
Well for one thing you can be as helpless and hopeless as you really are. It also helps to have a desperate problem — even a life-threatening one — such as a fatal illness. Think of the opera La Boheme. Of course I’m exaggerating to make a point. The Virgo man will make you think that he wants everything to be perfect but what he really wants is something he can fix. He is gallant and old-fashioned and romantic to the core. Play your cards accordingly. Virgos do have a thing about chastity; mostly their own, so of course they’re attracted to people who don’t have any. Liz Greene pegged it — “reforming the whore” — so you might want to consider assuming this vice if you have it not. Really, Pisces, we all know that you’re in love with everybody and in this relationship it works to be yourself.
Degree of Romance
There is a great deal of romance here but it’s hard to keep it on the up-and-up. For example, it is romantic to yearn for someone impossible to have. It is romantic to want to heal someone who is desperately ill. It is romantic to benefact someone whose life has spiraled out-of-control. But this is perhaps not the best use of the energy. I recommend that the couple in this combination try very hard to always take off their rose-colored glasses and see what is really going on … under the guise of romance.
Degree of Passion
This relationship can get really out of control, which might look like passion, but is more like a Night on Bald Mountain. Many a Wagnerian opera comes to mind. At the end of a Verdi there may be bodies all over, but that’s a whole lot better than souls.
Degree of Friendship
Friendship? Spending a day with these two is like going to Whitecastle with Harold and Kumar. They may be friends because they are the only people who can understand each other. Weirdness abounds.
Degree of Marriage
Well, opposites attract. If they do marry, Pisces will be able to be a clinging vine to a resolute Virgo who helps her with everything. I’m not sure this healthy.
Progression of Relationship
It gets worse. Like evolution, this begins at the bottom of the sea and then something washes up on the shore, but really … should fish grow legs?