Venus in Cancer Man
If a man’s Venus is in Cancer, he may prefer women who come across as sweet, soft, and warm. He is not as inclined to go for women who are model-thin, tomboy-ish, or for the high-profile career type. He often is attracted to more traditionally feminine looks, simply dressed (not gaudy or flashy). Understated but feminine summer dresses, accentuated breasts (natural, not “enhanced”), an aura of innocence or neediness, and the promise of devotedness are usually turn-ons. Venus in Cancer men often go out of their way to avoid feeling rejected, and this is mirrored in their attraction to women who are not too aggressive, loud, or overly confident.
Venus in Cancer wants to nurture and be nurtured in a relationship. Security and emotional bonding are important to you, and it’s very hard to let go of a relationship, even if it’s a bad one. Cancer is a water sign, and water is very soothing to your emotions. Cancer rules the stomach and breasts. (You may draw your own conclusions!) Crabs scurry sideways instead of straight forward. Sometimes this saves you from an uncomfortable situation, but other times it’s important for you to say what you mean, address the issue directly, rather than beating around the bush.
The Cancer Male is a romantic’s dream, who plays the part of courtier well. He is honest and devoted, and when his heart melts, his every breath is drawn in to be with the one that he loves. He is very protective and can be equally as possessive, often becoming jealous of time spent with friends, relatives, or even the family dog. He wants a partner who swoons at the sight of him, is part mind-reader, (his lover is supposed to intuitively know why he is sulking) and who will find joy simply in being the center of his world.
Cancer Venus Man
May be the type to need a “mother” for a girlfriend. May be very close with his mother and/or his family. Family will be very important to him and he may want very much to have children. He loves doing “traditional” things like fishing, going to see his favorite team play, breakfast in diners, beers after work at the bar, bowling, white picket fences, etc.
People with Venus in Cancer sometimes rely too much on friends to help them and support them. Also though, sometimes Venus in Cancer is the one to always give the support. They may find themselves in relationships where they are always having to be a Mother to their partner. Their partner may be very emotionally demanding and always in need of comfort and care.
He may be very old-fashioned and may have very traditional views about relationships. Hey may not be very social. He may prefer to stay home with his loved ones and watch television. Whatever he does for fun he will prefer to stick to that. He’s not the type to always branch out and try new things. He will like his tried and true activities.
Venus in Cancer may tend to have emotionally unstable friends. They may feel very comfortable in a position where they can always offer their friends emotional support. They tend to keep the same group of friends for a very long time.