Venus in Aquarius Woman
When woman Venus is in Aquarius, you don’t want to follow all the “rules” in love, preferring to love in your own way, unfettered by convention or what is “supposed” to be, or usually, done. You are future-minded, a tad unconventional (in love, anyhow) and there’s an unmistakable “free spirit” in you that shows up most obviously in matters of the heart. This is not to say you cannot—or will not—fall in love. Infatuations happen easily, but true love can be a little elusive for you. When you do make a commitment, you are generally able to stick to it. The commitment you make generally has to be a little different in order to be tolerable to you, and you are proud of that difference. Following the beaten track simply doesn’t sit well with you.
You have an aloof air about you that others find attractive. If they are looking for a commitment from you at a later date, however, what was once considered charismatic might become annoying! It is easy for you to feel claustrophobic in relationships that are too close, too needy, or too demanding of your time. If you have the space to breathe a little, all the better. This is when you are at your best.
You are a curious person and enjoy intellectual stimulation in your relationships. Although you are not someone who would be considered flighty, you do not tolerate stagnation very well. You need to feel like your relationship is heading somewhere. Your ability to detach yourself from a situation, take a step back, and look at it from a unique perspective is a tremendous strength. As willing as you are to stir things up if you are in the mood to enforce change, there is a wonderful calm surrounding you that can be most appealing to others. You are ahead of your time in matters of the heart, and you will be best off finding a partner who values your insight.
Aquarius Venus Woman
She is a social butterfly, always very chit chatty. It is very likely for her to find a romantic partner in her friend circle. Do note that Aquarius does not just have connection with communication, but also with technology. So the lady may also have great luck in finding a partner through Internet or phone.
Romantically, she is not intensely detached like the man we just discussed above. Yes, at young age, she fights to defend her space, but as maturity catches up, she begins to understand how to manage the traditional aspects of relationships. At this stage, she opens herself to love better. Still do not think she tolerates clinginess and intense emotions. Sensitivity tends to freak her out. And because of this, she may have aversion to men who become too fragile in love.
Her dream lover is rough and tough. He does not get swayed by emotions. He is independent enough to solve his own issues and does not depend on the relationship to run his life. He is ready to be treated like a friend among friends, but can capture her attention with great humor and wit. He is social and has no problem with group dates.
Earlier it is mentioned that Aquarian Venus believes highly in universal brotherly love. This has strong connection to the history of romantic relationships of the female carrier. She does not like holding grudge. She believes in forgiving and forgetting. So her partner has to accept the fact that some of her ex’s are her good friends.
Generally, just like most women, this lady has no problem longing for relationships. Recall that the placement tends to experience infatuation more often. The lady may fall temporarily and secretly for any guy, but she will not approach anyone unless she is completely sure that they have some kind of potential. Her heart is truly skilled at weighing right and wrong which helps her understand a person without letting the feelings blind her.
She enters the relationship with an easy going personality. She does not want her partner to please her by sacrificing some parts of his personality, for she believes highly in individualism. However, if her partner mistakes it for something else like a ticket to do and say whatever he wants, he may become the victim of her severe wrath and harsh judgments. It is true that she is impersonal, but this does not mean she does not understand that a relationship must involve only two people. The notion of individualism that she believes in has deep connection with fairness and honesty. What this means is that she wants total loyalty and truthfulness in her relationship.
Does she cheat? Thanks to the masculine nature of Aquarius, she is pretty good at understanding the difference between lust and love. As a matter of fact, according to her viewpoint, feelings should be given only to a partner in an exclusive relationship. But sex is both mental and physical. Therefore, even when in a relationship, the lady will fancy other men sexually. She does not think such temporary thoughts hurt the relationship. After all, she is not physically doing anything with them. But yes, it is possible for her to cross the line provided she is treated very harshly in her relationship or she is not getting anything out of it.