Venus in Aries Woman
When woman Venus is in Aries, you are direct and upfront about what you want. Your love nature is well-developed, but your fire can burn out just as quickly as it’s ignited. Your love nature is rather me-centered, not unlike the nature of a newborn child whose cries seem to say, “Hey, what about me?!”
Your infatuations are quick and all-encompassing, and you love a chase! You tend to prefer being the one to pursue a love interest. Your love nature is Mars-ruled, which gives energy, and a level of competitiveness, to your social and romantic nature. Unless your Venus in Aries is strongly aspected by Saturn, you have no qualms, thoughts, or practical concerns when you are romantically attracted to someone—you just jump right in. When you want something (or someone), you want it now! Aries has a way of blowing desires out of proportion, with the result that they quickly become needs instead of wants. Your wants, in fact, can eclipse rationality, and there is a bit of a naive quality to your interactions with others.
Because your attractions are impulsive, you can be attracted to many different types of people. However, if you are going to share much time with someone, a rather independent type is best for you. Close sharing and intimacy can sometimes try your patience, and a whining or dependent partner will wear you out quickly. You are a highly personal lover, and you can easily become touchy and irritable. You infuse excitement into your relationships and tend to get bored fairly easily. But you are also highly demonstrative and open in matters of the heart, and your lover will appreciate this directness and spontaneity.
Aries Venus Woman
She is one of the boldest and briskest women you will ever find in the universe. She has thirst for thrills and can be found busy in competitions against her female friends. She does not intend to make enemies and her matches are rather friendly. Some women still despise her. Competition is not the factor here though. Their hate grows from her urge and success to be the center of attention while her mind forgets to pay attention to those who helped her once or are naturally introverted. This causes a feeling of being left out. Women usually cannot stand this in the friend circle.
Despite the fact that shyness is not her dictionary, Venus in Aries woman does not restrain herself from forwarding her hand to the pigeon cooing message of love. She knows the value of romantic opportunities and that God helps those who help themselves. Accordingly, when someone steals her heart this lady does not shy away from flirting with him openly and seductively. It does scare away a few, but never fails to leave a lasting impression on her admirers. It makes her addictive.
Even men who call themselves just her friends experience this addiction. However, the rule of flirting is not a gift that she is blessed with. She learns to make it her own through mistakes and corrections. At young age, she is more impulsive about her infatuation. Hence, her feelings leak readily, leaving some pain and lessons along the way. Still she manages to get along with young boys much better than other female kids. With desires fading too quickly, she may end her relationships even before the first anniversaries. Boyfriends may come and go.
This certainly makes her more confident in her courting ability at adulthood and also sharpens her knowledge about the type of man most suitable for her in marriage. Her desire revolves around those who are well built, naturally extroverted, socially acceptable and straightforward in conversation. But what is love without challenge? Do not assume this to be someone too closed off. That is a big turn off for this specific lady.
Instead he is someone who has all the qualities described earlier plus has a tendency to wear a nature of playing hard to get while leaving many women bewitched. The idea of working courageously to win this trophy man is more meaningful to her. Doubts about whether he will wander away can go to hell. Keeping him faithful through specific actions is more fun and stimulating than simply thinking about the future. Jealousy may pop up here and there. But she knows how to clean it up with her wrath.
In relationships, this lady likes to be the dominant character. She has certain expectations that her mate must meet. Failure would mean surrendering to her world renowned arguments. At young age, the disappointment may force her to continuously break up and make up with the same man. But as age catches up, she moulds herself into a more tolerant person.
Is she faithful? As mentioned before, Aries compels its carriers to experience fast infatuations. Even in relationship, this is not avoidable. However, the Venus in Aries woman has a unique belief about cheating. According to her, when it becomes too important to be with the third person, one must break up with the current partner and then head to the new relationship.
She believes this is how cheating is avoided. It is all about the major physical step. Being too accustomed to frequent infatuations, she does not consider emotional connections to be any form of rule violation in relationships. Neither is flirting with other men. Her partner, however, is not allowed to exercise the same with other women.