Aries Woman Gemini Man
The relationship between an Aries woman and Gemini man is a lively one indeed. Both partners are full of life, and both like to be active and on the go the whole time. It certainly won’t be a boring relationship, but what are its long term chances?
For the Aries woman and Gemini man, compatibility means being able to argue. Incessantly. Remember, Gemini is an air sign, and the Gemini man loves to talk, discuss, debate and chew over everything and anything. The Aries woman likes to argue and debate too, but with one crucial difference – she has to win, at all costs. This talkative couple are likely to be forever disagreeing over minor and major issues, but if the Aries woman is outsmarted by the Gemini man’s intelligence, she will quickly start to anger.
The Aries woman is a very direct and forthright person. Once she makes up her mind, she sees her chosen course of action through to the bitter end. Her Gemini man, on the other hand, has no qualms at all about changing his mind half way through the game. It can infuriate the Aries woman to discover that what she’s been working towards has already been abandoned by her changeable lover. Aries woman Gemini man compatibility needs flexibility and understanding on both sides.
This is an air and fire relationship; although fire, in this case the Aries woman, needs the air, and will be inspired and charmed by her Gemini man, air doesn’t need fire. The Gemini man will love his Aries woman, and he’ll admire her passion and drive, but he’s quite independent by nature and could get along well enough without her, if truth be told. Since the Aries woman likes to feel that she’s won her man, this is another thing which is likely to infuriate her. She’s not used to men being able to take or leave her – she wants a more passionate reaction than that, so the Gemini man’s casual shrugging off of her moods will not go down well at all.
Sexually, it’s the Aries woman who will take the lead in this relationship. The Gemini man loves sex, but in a light-hearted almost humorous way. Sometimes, the Aries woman wishes he’d grow up a bit and be a little more intense and passionate, like her. That’s not going to happen. He’ll flirt too, and although there’s little danger of him actually being unfaithful, this will wound his Aries woman’s pride, and stoke her temper. Aries woman Gemini man compatibility is at its worst when the playful Gemini guy deliberately winds up his volatile Aries woman.
If this couple set their sights on a goal, they are sure to reach it. It’s a dynamic partnership, and a determined one. Between the Aries woman’s strength of will and the Gemini man’s intelligence, they are a force to be reckoned with. However, although good friends, this relationship isn’t really stamped with longevity. The Gemini man’s fickle behavior and his ability to jump from one thing to another at lightning speed is not quite what the Aries woman was looking for. For the Aries woman and Gemini man, compatibility is tricky. Doable, but tricky. For it to succeed, the Aries woman will need to accept that she won’t win most of the arguments; and the Gemini man will need to accept that his playboy behavior isn’t all that funny.
Aries Woman and Gemini Man Compatibility
It is hard to imagine this couple combination except that Gemini men have such universal appeal. An Aries girl might enjoy the challenge. These two would have to have other things in the chart that are compatible to even get off the ground, though. They are different in their approach to almost everything: love, romance, life, sex, and passion.
How to Attract a Gemini Man as an Aries Woman
You will probably love trying to attract a Gemini man because it is such a challenge to keep his interest. You’ll have to be quick-footed, nimble, and a little more flirtatious than your basic nature. Geminis are turned off by anything too stable, predictable, or steady. You will also have to be trendy and sophisticated, able to carry on a good conversation, have a variety of interests, and perhaps more than a dabbling of culture. A Gemini man is likely to be really up on trends and somewhat disdainful of people who are out of it or a day or two behind on the news. Try clever text messages which catch him on the fly, and don’t answer his right away. That should keep him guessing.
How to Attract an Aries Woman as a Gemini Man
You’ve got a tiger by the tail here, so be careful. You’re both full of energy, though hers is more physical than yours. She does approach the world with her mind, though, so you’re sharp tongue and great sense of humor will be an asset. The lady ram will love it when you get her to laugh at herself. She craves adventure, so invite her to experience something new with you. The trouble will come if you don’t follow through on your promises or break your word. She doesn’t have time to play games. Stand her up or forget her name and you’ll regret it. I can’t say how she’ll respond for sure, but I can say you won’t like it.
Degree of Romance
If the Aries female can keep it light, there is a chance for some fun-hearted flirting and dazzling footwork on the dance floor. Romance as an ideal will always be present when these two get together. The Gemini man is good at the appearance of almost anything, so there will be token attempts at courtship and verbal protestations of love.
Degree of Passion
While the Aries female will be excited by the Gemini’s advances, she will be disappointed when he is fickle about following through or slightly detached and mechanical in his approach to love making. Geminis are not really comfortable with bodies or sexuality. They prefer to fantasize or have phone sex. He is also probably going to do a lot of texting innuendos and she’ll get requests for special photos cell-to-cell. This might get very boring to the passionate Aries female.
Degree of Friendship
These two can have a lot of fun together. They are both interested in a wide variety of things. They each probably have a lot of friends of the opposite sex. There is not likely to be a lot of jealousy or possessiveness about spending time apart. These two can laugh off just about anything, which is one of the signs of true friendship.
Degree of Marriage
Aries can be an anchor for Gemini because she is willing to ground him periodically and hold his feet to the flames of responsibility. Deep in their hearts most Gemini men are not crazy about the idea of settling down, but if anyone could make them do it, it’s an Aries female.
Progression of Relationship
Things will be fun and exciting from the get-go. There is likely to be a lot of chasing and “catch me if you can.” The Aries will feel challenged even if she is not being engaged by the disinterested Gemini half the time. The difficulty will come in building to a crescendo, and the Aries female may be disappointed with the sexual aspect of the relationship. If these can be overcome, friendship is not a bad basis for marriage and that they will have a plenty.