Capricorn Woman Gemini Man
For the Capricorn woman and Gemini man, a relationship is hard work. These two signs are not natural partners, because they view life much too differently. Their quirks and foibles are just as likely to irritate each other as they are to charm each other, although this can be a good friendship or business partnership.
For the typical Capricorn woman and Gemini man, it’s a battle of youth versus experience, regardless of their actual ages. The Capricorn woman finds the Gemini man childish, and not necessarily in a good way. He in turn finds her old before her time, viewing her wisdom as stuffy and her sense of responsibility as outdated. They don’t tend to share the same goals or social circles, so Capricorn woman Gemini man compatibility can fail at the first hurdle of getting together in the first place.
Once in a relationship, however, this couple have much to discover about each other. If she has the patience to dig deep enough, the Capricorn woman will discover an inner vulnerability behind the Gemini man’s charm. If he can stay interested for long enough, the Gemini guy will discover a delight wit and a dry sense of humor behind the Capricorn woman’s business-like façade. But these are big “ifs” and in reality, either or both partners may easily tire of the other. Capricorn woman Gemini man compatibility is not obvious, and depends on both partners being willing to look for and create it.
When they do, however, the relationship can work reasonably well. The Capricorn woman brings stability and purpose to the Gemini man’s wandering thoughts; the Gemini man brings fun and laughter to the Capricorn woman’s sometimes overly serious demeanor. They can actually be very good for each other, these two, but the relationship’s a bit like medicine. Just because you know it does you good, doesn’t mean you enjoy taking it. Capricorn woman Gemini man compatibility can turn out to be an endurance test for both partners.
The couple are mismatched in the bedroom too, with the Gemini guy’s airy playfulness sending all the wrong signals to the Capricorn woman’s commitment seeking soul. She is an earth sign, and has an inner sensuality, but the Gemini guy is too fickle and too unreliable for her to really let go. If she trusts him very much, things will improve, but it only takes one rash flirtation from the Gemini man to put the relationship back at square one again – and the Capricorn woman neither forgives nor forgets. For the Capricorn woman and Gemini man, one mistake is one mistake too many.
This is an air/earth partnership, which always brings a certain disconnect in understanding. The Capricorn woman is responsible and mature, and on so many levels she simply doesn’t get the Gemini man. He is vibrant, sociable and talkative, and doesn’t understand why she doesn’t want to party with his friends every night. From their social life to their approach to money to their career ambitions, most things about this couple scream “awkward” – Capricorn woman Gemini man compatibility is quite unlikely unless both partners are madly in love; if they are, they can force this to work through sheer strength of will. If they’re not…the relationship could be very short lived.
Capricorn Woman and Gemini Man Compatibility
These two are likely to be interested in serious topics and will enjoy good conversations together based on a mutual respect of intellect. Cappy always takes the big picture and sees the broad overview of the world, while flaky as Gemini seems, he is capable of doing that as well because of the scope of his interests. They also complement each other. A Capricorn woman can take care of the practical side of life, allowing Gemi to do all those other things he’s so interested in. She may be willing to stay happily at home while he is out gadding about, and she’ll be content to hear about it when he gets home. The good listener meets the good talker. More perfectly perhaps, she is not curious by nature, so she won’t question him about his whereabouts — and it’s just as well.
How to Attract a Gemini Man as a Capricorn Woman
Scope him out (you’re good at that) and then approach him with some intelligent questions. If his answers are as amusing or witting as they should be, you can act like you admire him. You’ll have to do a lot of listening with this man, so make sure from the onset that he is “of interest” to you. You’ll have to be patient with his disorganization. He doesn’t mean it as an insult; Geminis are horrible at prioritizing. You may mean the world to him, but he will still bump you to take his little brother to the baseball game or pick his mom up at the shopping center.
How to Attract a Capricorn Woman as a Gemini Man
Treat her seriously and with respect. Save your goofing around until you know her better. She can be wooed by a great conversation. Try to act as mature as you possibly can. She is always looking for someone to protect and provide, even if she is more capable of that than you are. Your dates should be well-planned and sensible. For example, don’t over-spend or take her somewhere out of your normal price range. If she gets a whiff of that foolishness you are history.
Degree of Romance
Not too much romance going on here. Gemini would be willing to fill the role — he’s interested in just about anything — once — but Capricorn is not particularly impressed by romantic nothings. That’s exactly what she considers them — nothing. If he loves her, he’ll have to prove it some other way.
Degree of Passion
Gemini can fake it well enough, but again, Ms. Capricorn is not the right audience. Passion comes and goes, but she is looking for something reliable. I’d vote these two least likely to get into a passionate embrace.
Degree of Friendship
They can be very good friends because Capricorn will be so helpful to Gemini. He can talk over all his plans with her, and she will help him make sense of them. She will break it down into bite-sized pieces and put them in order for him so he knows what to do first. If she does this patiently, he will eat out of her hand because that is his Achilles’ heel, prioritizing. They make a natural camaderie of two.
Degree of Marriage
This can make a very fine marriage. Anyone who marries a Capricorn is interested in success. Gemi has what it takes if the partner provides the proper ingredients. In my opinion, these two bring out the very best in one another and become stable and admirable members of the community.
Progression of Relationship
The Capricorn woman will definitely have to be the power behind the throne. Gemini can be so scattered he will have trouble tying his shoes in the morning. I know a Gemini who went out on his first date with two different socks on. He may be quite erratic in his dating pattern, skipping from a weekday to a weekend without any reason. He may be unintentionally cheap — not because he is cheap but because he can sometimes be more interested in going to some place that catches his attention than in impressing her. If the local bar has a big fight on closed circuit, together with cheap house drinks, he will probably think that’s the perfect date that evening. Bear with him. He truly is educable. Nothing Gemini does is written in stone (for better or for worse).