Cancer Woman Cheating
Have you met a Cancerian woman recently? Are you a little confused as to what she really is - chirpy or somber or distant? She is all of these and still, she is none of these. More confused? A Cancerian woman has mood swings every now and then and these are some of her mood swings only. However, her basic personality traits remain the same. She is very sensitive, emotional, kind and caring. Now’s the catch! Most of her traits will be hidden behind a shell of indifference and aloofness.
You will have to gently coerce a Cancerian girl to get out of that shell and come into the big bad world without it. The best time to do this is in the moonlight, when there are maximum changes of catching her in her true emotions. When in love, she will be tender, womanly, timid and modest. She dislikes criticisms, can’t stand rejection and gets deeply hurt by harsh words. Too much aggressiveness on your part may make her a little hesitant. A Cancer woman will never make the first move in a relationship: she only knows how to move backwards or sideways.
This is because of two reasons, her shyness and the fear of being rejected. She loves her mother, so you better learn to love as well as respect her too. This female has some secrets and she won’t like your prying around her personal diary. She is very insecure and will need your constant reassurance. It doesn’t matter if she is the current "Miss Universe" or has men drooling over her all the time. It is your attention and appreciation she is the most concerned about. A Cancer female is a great cook and makes better food than a five-star hotel chef.
However, you will have to learn to live with her mood swings, which is not so difficult since she is so good in every other way. She is extremely loyal and will keep you happy with her warm and rich humor. Once she is committed to you, she will remain yours forever and ever. Adultery is not one of the traits of her characteristics profile. With a Cancerian woman, you will always have to be careful with words. She is very sentimental and can get hurt very easily. Then, she can cry like a two-year old baby.
You will be expected to console her and wipe her tears. Cancerian women are quite careful with money. Neither will they be stingy, not totally extravagant. They have a habit of saving everything that is usable, be it money or old buttons or empty jars. They also carefully save things that have a sentimental value attached to them, like the sweater grandmother knitted on their fifth birthday. A Cancer female fiercely guards what is hers and that includes you too! However, she is not too possessive or jealous. But, she does not like sharing her love too.
She is one of those people who do not crib about bad luck. She will get depressed and may shed a few tears alone, but she will be patient and wait for the time to change again, this time in her favor. Almost all the Cancerians have the desire of being pampered like a child, especially when they feel low. Don’t forget to pay your Cancer girl extra attention when she is depressed, otherwise she may retreat deeper into her shell. Then, it will be very difficult to bring her back to her normal self.
She will want to be told time and again that she is still desirable and you still need her. However, she is not weak and is completely capable of looking after herself. Infact, she is one of those who sacrifice all that they have, for their loved ones. She just needs some spoiling after every few days. A Cancerian woman may be fragile as far as her feelings are concerned, but when you need her, she will be as strong as the "Rock of Gibraltar". She will also be very protective of her children and make them feel completely secure.
They will be the center of her universe and she will pamper them with her love, affection and care. The children will also be very close to her and no matter how much far they go from home, they will come back to her and she knows this. A Cancer female always needs you, but she will never get too aggressive. She knows that you may leave for a while, to follow your dreams, but in the end, she is the one you will come back to. Then, you will find her as charming as before, waiting for you with freshly baked break and hot soup. She will feed you, listen to your worries and make you smile again!
Are Cancer Women Faithful?
Of all the 12 signs, Cancer is the most concerned with a secure, loving relationship. The Crab loves home and family and is not happy unless he has deep emotional ties. The Cancerian is usually very nurturing and tends to take good care of everyone he cares about.
Why would a Cancer cheat? - A Cancer would most likely cheat for revenge. It’s almost safe to say that Cancer is the most cheated ON sign rather than the one actually cheating. Being an emotionally driven water sign, it’s likely cheating would be used as a weapon to inflict pain rather than joy and excitement.
Signs a Cancer is cheating on you - When a Cancer meets someone of interest, they let down their hard shell and expose their soft inner core. The main sign of cheating would be this act in reverse - the Cancer has closed up it’s soft inside and shut you out with it’s hard shell indefinitely.
Cancer Woman’s Reaction to Being Cheated On
Your Cancer woman won’t make you feel like a chicken attacked by a pack of hungry wolves when your affair is discovered. Neither will she throw your clothes and belongings out of the house, and tell you to go to hell. Instead, Miss Cancer would choose to listen and remain calm as you reel out a string of well-polished excuses and lies along with that I-am-so-sorry-I-have-hurt-you look on your face.
However, don’t assume she is ready to forgive your infidelity and put it back behind her. Forgiveness is not something she has in abundance for betrayers that have trampled on her trust and insulted her intelligence. You will have to work extremely hard to get back into her good books, and this is very likely to involve spending a small fortune and/or doing things you really really hate.
I also want to warn you that Cancer-born females are deceptively quiet schemers, which means she will make you the CEO of Guilt Inc for the rest of your life. My friend, you will be reminded time and again that you are a lying, cheating bastard husband — and be prepared to get a frequent earful from your mother-in-law too.