Dating a Taurus Woman
Sexy, funny and down to earth the Taurus woman is perfect for those looking for a balanced and "real" partner. She is dependable, patient, sensible and reliable - while at the same time enjoying an unmatched level of sensuality and humor.
She dislikes and avoids risk and tends to be gentle and tolerant of others, with a strong sense of honor and integrity. Practical and stable, she has an above average level of common sense. The Taurus woman values tradition, loyalty and stability, and as a result can be highly sentimental and emotional over loved ones, possessions and even routines.
As might be surmised from this, she really doesn’t like change and can be very hard to persuade! Often the best way to make her change direction is to suggest something months in advance, and repeat it periodically. After long enough the idea will have its own ’stability-value’ and be accepted, whereas a more recent or spontaneous idea might not.
Taurus Woman In Relationships
But don’t worry about trying to keep the Taurus woman interested, for if she likes you then she likes your personality as is. She’s not concerned with the fast pace of the world or other people. She takes her time to get it done right, and that’s all she expects of you. Otherwise be ready for a breakup!
But if you don’t have a job or at least financial security then you won’t even make it to the next stage. Security is high on her list of priorities and she wants a love partner who can take care of his own. She needs to feel you can support her in times of crisis, and if she’s looking to start a family then she wants you to be able to provide for them too.
Taurus women look for a strong male figure who knows what he wants and knows how to obtain it. Now that isn’t to say she can’t take care of herself, for she’s more than capable of handling her affairs. She simply needs a companion who can do the same so she doesn’t have to worry about taking care of him too. Love compatibility in terms of mental and emotional stability is a must for this lady!
What it’s Like to Date a Taurus Woman
Taurus women are masters in the art of seduction. She will get what she wants but her patience is incredible, she will wait for what she wants She needs stability and security and will not tolerate a man who is not straight with her and leads her along with uncertainty in the future. She is the old-fashioned type, the type of woman who is associated with the drive-in soda shop days of the 60’s.
She is down to earth, protective, supportive, loving, devoted and loyal. She is openly affectionate in a relationship. Taurus women is perfect for the man who likes to be nurtured and pampered, providing you are loyal and devoted. She has a lot to give but she requires a lot in return.
Remember, the Taurus woman is very sensitive although she might not seem so on the exterior. Court her and constantly try to impress her and you will win her heart and she will be yours. Cross a Taurus woman, and her temper will flare, she will become extremely stubborn. If you ever break her trust, it will be nearly impossible to gain it back again.
How to Dating a Taurus Woman
The ruling planet of this Zodiac sign is the Venus who in classical Roman mythology was the goddess of beauty and sexual love. As a result, physical intimacy is an important part of romantic relationships for Taurans. Not for them the cool detachment of Aquarians or the airy romance of Pisceans.
Taurus men and women like to feel love in its most physical aspect and in fact can take an absence of intimacy as a sign of a partner’s disinterestedness. So make sure your Taurus girlfriend has not just an occasional night of amour with you but a lot of hugs and kisses as well. This display of physical intimacy is important for her to feel close and connected to you.
A related aspect of the love life of a Taurus is the need for security. More than fantasies of romance and realms of poetry, a Taurus needs emotional as well as material security in a relationship. This is because a Taurus is primarily interested in the practical side of life.
While moonlit nights and romantic serenades are all very well, a Taurus woman will be more interested to know if you are well-established in your career and without any other romantic entanglements. So, if you are serious about your Taurus girlfriend, make sure that she feels assured of your love since the least hint of your wandering attentions could signal disinterest or even unfaithfulness on your part. A Taurus woman needs to feel completely secure in a relationship for her to commit herself in the long run.
Loyalty is a crucial requirement for a Taurus to be happy in a romantic relationship. They are staunch lovers and once settled into a relationship will be comfortably monogamous for practically the rest of their lives. However being faithful themselves, they also expect the same level of commitment from their partners. In their book of relationships, infidelity is crime number one. So if you like a bit of harmless flirting on the side, make sure you know what you are doing.
This tendency to put great counter on loyalty can also make a Taurus extremely possessive. If you are dating a Taurus woman as well as have a bevy of girlfriends from the past, decide which you want to keep. It is not in the nature of a Taurus to be able to share a partner with others, especially with those of the opposite sex. As a result, a Taurus may at times give way to intense bouts of jealousy. Your girlfriend may question every appointment of yours on a weekend or doubt whether you were really working after hours on a weeknight. This kind of possessiveness may make a partner feel hedged in sometimes and always on the defensive.
Yet another related trait is the infamous Taurus obstinacy which is hardly surprising considering that the zodiac is symbolized by the Bull. On the whole, you may find your Taurus lover a placid and calm person, happy to be minding her business but when needled into an argument she may stick to her stand with typical bull-headedness, perhaps even when she knows that she may be mistaken. Worse still, when pushed into a corner she may respond with the legendary temper of a Taurus, threatening to crush anything that stands in her way.
The flipside of a Taurus’s love for security may be a tendency towards excess materialism. For a Taurus to be interested in some task or experience there has to be a tangible outcome to it. Your girlfriend might not enjoy an evening at the theater as much as a night at the casino. If you are a person who does not put too much store by material possessions, your girlfriend’s obsession with clothes, furniture and jewelry may seem to smack of superficiality and acquisitiveness.
On one hand, she may appear to be a veritable hoarder, stacking up on the good things that money can buy while on the other she may take intense delight in splurging, buying things and sensations just for the pleasure of it. In the thrall of material indulgence, she may be too little concerned with the humane or spiritual aspect of life. But then that is the Taurus for you – a being whose feet are firmly rooted to the ground and who likes her pleasures.
At the same time the grounded nature of a Taurus also makes her take pride in her home and family. For her, the culmination of a relationship is most likely to come with marriage. Having a large house, a lovely family and a lively social life with good food and friends is what most Taurus women dream of. So if you want to hold on to your Taurus girlfriend, pop the question now or she may lose interest in a relationship that does not seem to be going anywhere for her.
Things like loyalty and security are so important to a Taurus because they believe that love is for keeps. If you find your girlfriend taking forever to come to a decision on your relationship, have patience. She may take her time but once she makes up her mind about you, rest assured that she will stand by you for a long, long time to come.