Dating a Virgo Woman
Virgo women have their very own brand of "professional sexy". Their outwardly reserved, intellectual and precise nature creates the perfect contrast for their wilder side within... they may not be the most overtly sexual of the signs, but their subtlety works just as efficiently.
If you’re turned on by intelligent people then beware! Virgo’s are nearly always intellectual, and this woman’s fast mind can find humor in most things, and often empathize with others more than her emotions alone would allow. This ability to empathize while still remaining detached makes them some of the best counselors, therapists and psychologists.
Virgo Woman In Relationships
For a first date choose an intimate restaurant where you can continue the conversation. Make sure it’s a high-end place with the best food and drink, for the Virgo woman expects nothing less in her life. That’s not to say she is materialistic, she simply appreciates the finer things in life.
The Virgo female takes great care in providing the very best for her friends and family and she expects the same level of detail from her partner. You will have to put a lot of work into this relationship, but she will give you every ounce of her being in return.
Just remember that she puts that much effort into all areas of her life, including other relationships and her career. She doesn’t always have time for you and she may be a workaholic. Be supportive of her career and her lifestyle, though, and she will want to add you into her schedule.
This is where you get to make most of the decisions about dates, for the Virgo lady doesn’t mind taking a back seat to your suggestions. Just make sure you’ve thought them through or else she will have no problem showing her disappointment. She is extremely critical about everything, so try and plan the evening or outing down to the very last minute element.
Virgo women do appreciate a conventional courtship, so you don’t have to get too creative with the ideas. Just continue to put forth the effort and that will be enough to eventually move things into the bedroom.
What it’s Like to Date a Virgo Woman
A Virgo woman is earthly and she may seem cold and detached, but underneath the timid, reserved surface lies the real woman, a strong, passionate woman with a great capacity for strong devoted love. She will play hard to get, she is hard to get for she is worried about exposing her emotional vulnerabilities and getting hurt.
She requires patience and you will have to court her and work hard to impress her. Once she is in love, it is for the long term. She will be devoted, loyal and make you very happy and even put a little order in your life. Virgo woman is conservative and old fashioned, a typical woman who is perfect for the man who loves a challenge and likes to take a relationship slow.
How to Dating a Virgo Woman
One of the most pleasing aspects of a Virgo girlfriend is her willingness to help. Like others of her Zodiac she is not one to shy away from hard work and commitment, especially if it will help others in some way. Perhaps this is because she is ruled by the planet Mercury who in classical Roman mythology was the extremely busy messenger of gods, racing against time to deliver missives from one divine being to another
While this trait of selfless service can be one of the top draws in a woman, if overdone it is likely to scare many a guy away. A Virgo woman can easily become insistent and overbearing in her desire to do something for someone but especially to do it in the right way.
Eve though, Virgos bear the symbol of the Virgin, it does not automatically stand to imply that they are prudish or sexually repressed. While wild passion does not rank among their top priorities in a romantic relationship, they do not shy away from coming close to their partners – albeit in a more private and inhibited manner.
The zodiac symbol of the Virgin rather implies the modest and humane nature of Virgos. According to an interesting account, the Virgin actually symbolizes the goddess of the harvest. Depicted with a sheaf of corn in her hand, she stands for the fruit of labor or the harvest that one reaps after putting in the right amount of hard work. This too is an apt symbol for Virgos who are known for their industrious nature.
The downside of the Virgo’s meticulous and industrious personality is they are apt to become the warning signs of the “All work and no play” syndrome. It is not uncommon to find workaholics among the ranks of Virgos and your girlfriend too may be one of them. So if you find your date appearing almost an hour late on account of being held up at work or even putting in some overtime on a Friday evening, more likely than not she is a Virgo.
While this overlapping of the professional life into personal time may be disconcerting for her partner, it is well to remember that a Virgo woman will bring the same amount of dedication and investment into a relationship when the latter gets her full attention.
The flipside of a Virgo’s drive for perfectionism is an exacting even critical nature. She may judge her partner by the same impossibly-high standards that she holds in her own life and demand that he too maintain them in their personal relationship. This may be asking for too much from a guy who is content to laze away the better part of a Sunday in the company of beer cans or who does not think too much of the fact that he did not celebrate the second anniversary of the first time he had kissed his girlfriend. But if that girlfriend is a Virgo, she is likely not only to remember the day but even notice that her partner has forgotten all about it.
The element associated with Virgos is the Earth and this is in keeping with their grounded natures. A Virgo woman will thus be practical and concerned with activities which have a tangible outcome. Blessed with a sensible mind and a discriminating eye, she will be attracted only to those ventures, professional as well as personal, which can be taken to a logical conclusion. The airy brilliance of Geminis or the flowing imagination of the Pisceans is not for her. Rather she will give more attention to details of your credit rating, the kind of relationship you share with your parents and whether your tie matches the jacket.
One of the interesting aspects of the meticulous nature of Virgos is the attention they pay to matters of health and diet. So while dating your Virgo girlfriend, you may be given a lowdown on the merits of organic food and the best way to avoid cardio-vascular problems in future. While all this may appear sententious to some guys, the truth is few things in life are as important as sound health. And what better way to follow a balanced lifestyle than have the love of your life inspire you towards it!