Libra Woman Capricorn Man
The relationship between a Libra woman and Capricorn man is a difficult one, since both partners want very different things from life. This earth and air sign relationship tries hard, but the couple will find it hard to discover common ground.
Right from the start, the staid, conservative Capricorn man and the lively, sociable Libra woman are an awkward match. She loves to socialize and to mix and to discuss her ideas; he likes to work and to stay at home, and is a man of few words. They are both seeking a stable and enduring partnership, but that’s about it for initial Libra woman Capricorn man compatibility.
It’s not that there isn’t an attraction, of course. The Libra woman is exceedingly charming, and the Capricorn man can hardly fail to notice that. For her part, the Libra woman is attracted to the Capricorn man’s strong, silent type image, and is keen to see if she can discover what lies beneath. In the bedroom, however, this couple don’t quite to get to grips with sexual chemistry. The Capricorn man does have an inner sensuality, and the Libra woman is highly romantic, but the magic just isn’t quite there. For Libra woman and Capricorn man compatibility, the early signs are not great.
The problem with this relationship really is that both signs lack a certain passion. The Capricorn man’s emotions are cool and well controlled, while the Libra woman, as an air sign, intellectualizes her emotions and holds them at arm’s length. The couple don’t really connect on an emotional level, and that will always hold back Libra woman Capricorn man compatibility.
The Capricorn man will find it difficult to deal with the Libra woman’s desire for an active social life, while the Libra woman will find it difficult to deal with the Capricorn man’s devotion to his career. If the couple can agree to lead relatively separate lives then this relationship could work…but that’s not what either of them are seeking. For the Libra woman in particular, the idea of separate lives would fill her with horror. What she wants is a passionate, caring, romantic man who will fulfil her dreams forever. What she gets is an accountant with his eye on the time and only a raised eyebrow or two to indicate what he’s feeling. The Capricorn man wants a woman who will share his commitment to building a life, not a woman who wants to float around in a romantic bubble. Libra woman and Capricorn man compatibility just doesn’t satisfy either partner.
Not even a good argument can clear the air for this couple. They will instead skirt around important issues, never quite losing their tempers but never getting anywhere either. The Capricorn man will not negotiate on his stance, while the Libra woman will want to negotiate and re-negotiate every last little thing. From an emotional mismatch to a lack of sexual chemistry and disagreements over things such as money and parenting, the lack of Libra woman Capricorn man compatibility means that this relationship rarely stands the test of time.
Libra Woman and Capricorn Man Compatibility
Never was a marriage more of a partnership agreement than with these two who work beautifully with one another in tandem toward common goals. Each sign is good at goal setting and defining areas of responsibility for mutual efforts. They commit by nature for efficiency) and they really enjoy the partnership process, believing that “two heads are better than one”. Each has been waiting their whole life for a faithful (accountable) sidekick almost as if the attainment of one were a rite of passage. Because of this the outlining of duties can be a bit tense. They will take social obligations with an earnestness approaching fanaticism, keeping careful track of what they did with each couple and what is expected in return. They will be careful to return invitations within the proper time frame. They enjoy entertaining but are not particularly good at getting the right mix of people together.
How to Attract a Capricorn Man as a Libra Woman
Dress conservatively and appropriately for the occasion. Have your hair under control LOL. Be businesslike. Use your superior social skills to keep the conversation going. Understand that his reserve masks a great deal of shyness and fear of rejection. If you don’t ever want to see him again, try teasing him or being bossy. First and foremost, you don’t have to control everything around the guy and the date. Believe me when I tell you that in his own quiet way, he runs things better than you could ever dream of. You finally found someone you can relax with if you only you will. For God’s sake do yourself a favor and try saying “yes” for three months straight rather than “yes, BUT …”. Don’t bring your friends into the picture till you’ve met his family. I really mean this. I know It will be hard but it’s important. It makes a very strong statement that means something to hiim.
How to Attract a Libra Woman as a Capricorn Man
You will have to find an icebreaker (pray hard!!!!) She won’t always judge you on your social skills but they are pretty important at first. Your best bet is to compliment something attached to her but not personal such as a glimpse at her keyring. Say it is “clever” or “interesting” or “different”. That’s enough to get her talking. If you don’t do well right away and are really struck with her, this is one case where I recommend a dating coach.
Degree of Romance
This couple will follow protocols largely because they lack the imagination to get off the beaten path. Capricorn, be careful because in the romance department Libra is the Queen of Withholds and Scorekeeping. She will have a set of internalized expectations about romantic behavior (“If he really loved me, he would … “) She will withhold her displeasure when you fail to read her mind but it goes on the scoreboard under “Strikes Left”. When you strike out for the last time, which is some arbitrary, made up rule she has, she will then sandbag or ”unload” on you out of nowhere with invectives and diatribes because 1>you didn’t do this and >2 you didn’t do that >3 and another thing …. That’s when you find out what a good scorekeeper she is. This will be the first time you’ve heard of your sins of omission so you’re caught completely off guard. Now you also know how good she is at 1> setting you up, 2> keeping you in the dark and 3> unloading with both barrels.
Degree of Passion
There may be a lot of hatred in this relationship from time to time but not any passion. If they go to any extremes it will be contempt and ridicule without mercy … ouch! Libra can be singularly lacking in compassion and with her help in wardrobe selection, Capricorn easily slips into the hair suit.
Degree of Friendship
Do friends badger each other? I doubt if it weren’t for sexual attraction, they would like being alone together more than a few minutes except for some sly social climbing on Capricorn’s part.
Degree of Marriage
This is good marriage material particularly when focused on external achievements, careers and child rearing.
Progression of Relationship
The relationship will proceed according to Libra’s particular logic. She does a lot of testing which Capricorn plods willingly through. During courtship may be the only time Capricorn performs this well, so, Libra, enjoy!