Scorpio Woman Gemini Man
There are a lot of obvious differences between the Scorpio personality and the Gemini personality, and at first glance, this couple don’t have a great deal in common. They do find themselves drawn together, however, and this is a relationship which can surprise everyone. For the Scorpio woman and Gemini man, compatibility is unstable and unpredictable…but they quite like it that way.
The Scorpio woman is intensely emotional and very full on. In a relationship with a Gemini man, she will insist upon his undivided attention; or at least, she’ll try to. In reality, she’ll have to share his attention with his friends, his mother and his job, which is likely to send her into many a searing sulk. Their social life isn’t without issue either, since the Scorpio woman, a very private lady, would prefer to stay in with her man, while the Gemini man wants to be out and about mixing and mingling. Scorpio woman Gemini man compatibility will involve compromises about how much time this couple spends alone together.
When they argue (which is often) it will appear that the Gemini man wins every time. After all, he’s the intellectual, and he paints such a logical picture that the Scorpio woman is hard pressed to win. She, however, is a woman who knows how to bide her time. She may have to give in there and then, in the moment, but she broods, and she will know how to get her own back in due course. For the Scorpio woman and Gemini man, compatibility often takes the form of an extended power play, with the Gemini guy winning on the face of things, but the Scorpio woman manipulating things behind the scenes.
Sexually, it will always be the Scorpio woman who takes the lead in this relationship. She is very sexual and very sensual, and she brings a huge depth of emotion to the couple’s love life. She’s likely to find the Gemini guy rather superficial in this area, though, and a little too lightweight. He doesn’t provide the emotional connection she wants; at least, not always. It’s this difference between searingly intense emotions and relative coolness which can prove a true problem for Scorpio woman Gemini man compatibility. This is an air and water mix, which can result in a storm full of passion and angst, or it can result in a rainbow – but when the dark and intense Scorpio woman is involved, rainbows can be hard to come by.
Jealousy can be another real problem for this couple. The Scorpio woman is one of the most jealous women around, and she will struggle to tolerate the Gemini man’s flirtatious nature. She finds him rather too fickle, and he fails to take their relationship seriously sometimes, which maddens her. She gives her all to the relationship, and to find him joking about it is just more than she can bear. For the Scorpio woman and Gemini man, compatibility is a very on-off affair, therefore. There will be plenty of arguments and breakups, yet this couple always seem to get back together again.
Why? Probably because each has something the other needs. The Scorpio woman needs and admires the Gemini man’s deft touch with communication. He in turn needs to understand more about his own emotional depths, which she can teach him. Despite being one of the more tempestuous zodiac relationships, long term Scorpio woman Gemini man compatibility stands a better chance than you might think.
Scorpio Woman and Gemini Man Compatibility
This couple is full of surprises, some of them scary, and some of them really scary. They each wear a mask like a Halloween costume, and they love to jump out and go “Boo!” Both these signs are used to hiding behind layers that obfuscate who they really are. Scorpio manipulates everything, and Gemini must monkey around with everything. It is literally impossible for either of them to come straight at an object, but they understand that about each other. Can you imagine the circumlocution and posturing necessary to accomplish anything? Each one of them is like a double agent trying to figure out what kind of double agent the other one is and oddly enough, they don’t take it at all seriously. If you get right down to it, each of them would say it’s crazy to be very open with anybody else.
How to Attract a Gemini Man as a Scorpio Woman
Feel free to do something sexy to catch his attention but then you’ll have to back it up with some intelligent conversation. Stay away from manipulation because you’ve met your match. If you monkey around too much with the relationship, it will definitely backfire.
How to Attract a Scorpio Woman as a Gemini Man
Most Scorpio women are interested in any man in sight because they love the power of their sexual allure. Watch what you say very carefully. In some cases you can be somewhat crude, but you better err on the side of prudence. If she starts talking about sex first, feel free to build on the conversation. Sex isn’t all she’s interested in, but it’s pretty much what attracts her to a guy, so it’s best if you have some confidence in yourself on that score. You are not playing with an amateur.
Degree of Romance
It is eroticism that’s likely to occur, not romance. Gemini is a very curious and willing sexual partner and Scorpio can take him where he’s always wanted to go.
Degree of Passion
Unfortunately the passion in this relationship may be the tumultuous emotions of Scorpio when she feels betrayed or slighted. Ms. Scorpio is famous for her rage and vindictiveness. Do not mess with her, Monkey Man. You’re likely to lose your tail. And another thing, Gemini, we know how much you love to mess around, but you have no idea the dark forces that will be unleashed if you mess around on this lady. At the very least, she will personally key your brand new Lexus. What happens after that will make that look good. No really.
Degree of Friendship
Are you kidding? Friends don’t key friend’s cars.
Degree of Marriage
No piece of paper can possibly bind these two together more than the games they play. My advice is don’t even go there unless you are willing to play nine innings of hard ball. Gemini, whatever little tricks you have up your sleeve, you might find your arm in the alley back behind your house. On the other hand, if you decide to straighten up and fly right, this is the sort of women that will make a righteous man out of you.
Progression of Relationship
Gemini, do not mess around with her on any level. If you prize your kneecaps, get down on them and stay there. It is best to give this woman what she wants — and act like you like it. By the way, there is no place for your Evil Twin in this relationship. And why is that? Because your Evil Twin is unbelievably naive (I hate to be the one to tell you).