Virgo Woman Cancer Man
The Virgo woman and Cancer man are both quiet, dignified people who have high personal values. The Cancer man wants to look after his partner, and the Virgo woman wants to look after, be of service to and carry out her duty towards her partner, so together they can create a mutually loving and supportive relationship. Virgo woman Cancer man compatibility relies on the couple having much in common, but may begin to unravel after a time.
This couple do have a great deal to teach each other, which can benefit both of them. The Cancer man is intuitive, sensitive and emotional – his logical, analytical Virgo woman can show him how to ground and sort through his conflicting emotions in order to find greater peace of mind. Meanwhile, the Virgo woman can be uptight emotionally, and the Cancer man can teach her that it’s OK to just feel how you feel, without having to self-censor all the time. Virgo woman Cancer man compatibility is mutually constructive, but is that enough for a lifetime of love?
This is a water earth partnership, which can result in the best of both worlds, or it can result in mud. The stumbling block for Virgo woman Cancer man compatibility is that both partners worry and fret constantly. The Cancer man is notorious for his worries. The Virgo woman is full of nervous energy and constantly has a great deal on her mind, but at least she is an earth sign and is capable, when she feels like it, of dealing with her worries positively and constructively. It’s easy for her to get swept up in her Cancer man’s depression, though, and then even the highly practical Virgo woman will struggle to chart a course out of it.
The Virgo woman’s natural instinct in a partnership is to try to help her partner. However, she has a uniquely Virgo way of doing this, through criticism. She means it positively and lovingly, and most of what she offers is indeed sound advice – for a sensitive Cancer man, however, it can all be a bit too much. He will start to wonder why she’s with him in the first place if she just wants to change him. He will resent the constant criticism, so his moods will become worse. That will distract and distress his Virgo woman, who will offer more advice…and so the cycle worsens. Virgo woman Cancer man compatibility depends on the Virgo woman learning to sense when her advice is welcome and when it is not. She is a mutable sign, and an intelligent one too, so she may well be able to do this, but it will take her a while to learn.
Decision making within this partnership will be interesting to say the least. The Cancer man makes decisions instinctively and intuitively; the Virgo woman will make copious lists of every possible outcome and change her mind seven times before eventually reaching a conclusion based on her analysis. In some ways, this is a good thing, because when it comes to important matters like finance or parenting, this couple have the input of both the head and the heart. In theory. In practice, it’s just another reason for the couple to become frustrated with each other; an added complication that Virgo woman Cancer man compatibility just does not need.
In good times, however, this can be a workable and even delightful relationship. This couple are quirky and self-sufficient, not needing a huge social circle around them. They support each other, they love each other and they understand each other up to a point. Whether it can survive into the long term depends on how much the couple love each other (obviously) and on whether, for the Virgo woman, Virgo woman Cancer man compatibility is worth staying quiet.
Virgo Woman and Cancer Man Compatibility
This relationship is one of my secret favs. Two very gentle, tuned-in individuals find peace and comfort in each other’s arms. Both the Virgo man and Cancer woman carefully groom each other and a small circle of people with whom they have genuine connections. Each would never knowingly hurt someone else. Both are protective and talented in human relations. Though, much to their own dismay, they can be whiny, fussy and needy when off center, they feature high on the integrity scale for good intentions. Bringing out the very best in one another, they actually enjoy giving more than receiving when paired up together. Their taste is likely to be similar, focusing on a small world of comfort and perfection rather than, for example, setting the world on fire – though they may wind up doing so peripherally. Both tend to value soul care and moral development above egoism, keeping-up-with-trends or accumulating the latest stuff. Both prefer comfort and understatement to ostentation.
How to Attract a Cancer Man as a Virgo Woman
Show your awareness of and concern for healthy lifestyle. Describe how much you like vegan or low-cholesterol cooking. Imply that you would love to take very good care of him. Give him something you made with your own hands like a cookie. Get to know his favorite color. Keep it low key and low maintenance. Here, finally, is the right place to be sincere. Use the Magick Word often (“we”) and in future implied tense. Be comforting and soothing. If he’s late or forgot to bring his mapquest directions printout, say “Now, now, everything’s going to be ok.” I know that’s what people usually say to you but you’ve met your match. He needs it even more than you do. In this relationship you’re going to have to calm, cool and collected while he worries and frets. Your tender ministrations will help him avoid an ulcer at an early age. Here’s another hot tip. Please treat his mother like royalty. He really, really loves her.
How to Attract a Virgo Woman as a Cancer Man
Pay for everything. Make exquisite choices that show attention to detail. Remember everything she tells you as she will remember everything you tell her. Wherever you go, keep the lights low, the music soft and the food healthy. Treat her small pet as a member of the family. Drop her off at the door while you hassle the parking and weather issues. Let her know how much you appreciate every little thing unless you want it to evaporate into thin air. She is very devotional but NEVER a door mat. If you have a complaint, word it diplomatically. Keep it short and focused. No reason to get emotional. She really listens and will understand. No need to go Commando.
Degree of Romance
There’s a lot of exquisite feelings between these two but even greater is their ability to express them. This couple thrives on the impromptu foot or neck rub which quickly turns erotic. (You have no idea what feet are for till you date-and-mate a Virgo woman.) They may particularly enjoy romancing in the hot tub. Cancers are water babies and Virgo is great with a nubby toweled rubdown.
Degree of Passion
Passion comes naturally when two people are so relaxed and comfortable with one another. Trust is not just a five-letter word. It’s a visceral “I’m ok You’re ok” feeling that pervades everything they do together.
Degree of Friendship
Who is ALWAYS there to lend a helping hand? Virgo. Who is ALWAYS there for a shoulder to cry on? Cancer. These two are everyone else’s best genuine friend. Why wouldn’t they be each other’s?
Degree of Marriage
Virgo woman and Cancer man make for super compatibility. They really focus on “love, honor and serve”. They will spend untold blissful hours getting their lovely home “just perfect for us”. It will be a marvel of comfort and efficiency with personal detailing every where in evidence. They make model “hands-on” partners and parents. In a world full of wind bags, uber bling bling enthusiasts, slobs, geeks, freaks and weaks, they have each found the Perfect Partner. Ah! The sanity of it all. Now let’s go have some good, clean fun.
Progression of Relationship
Being so grateful to find one another, they may want to go slowly and savor every step along the way. They do a minuet courtship dance of intricate touches and personal pleasure. There they are, over there!! She’s saying, with tears in her soft eyes, “I always wanted someone to watch the sun set with me from the temple steps here overlooking the harbor. This is so right.” “I know. I know,” he says and pulls her close. Virgo: You know what else I’d like to do next >>> ?” …. Cancer: Big smile.