Aries in Love
If you are an Aries you are sensual and exuberant, passionate, idealistic and devoted, especially when you are in love. However, you are also impatient and you don’t like to feel restricted. Lovers trying to control your behaviour, quickly fall out of grace.
Arians have a pioneering spirit when it comes to affairs of the heart, and a rather naive approach to relationships generally. You learn by experience, slowly: it takes many tangos with Mr Wrong before you realize mother was right all along - marry in haste, repent at leisure. Your passions are easily ignited and just as quickly extinguished, sometimes because familiarity and routine breed disinterest but most often because the thunderbolt of love blinded you to the fact that your Prince Charming had webbed feet. Yes, you are hot-blooded, warm-hearted, giving and highly committed, but not only would you save yourself serious disappointment by taking the time to get to know someone properly but you would also benefit from allowing a guy discover for himself all your manifold virtues. He really doesn’t need a daily bulletin of your assets. Then, there’s your talent for leadership - or shall we just call it what it really is, bossiness. As my lovely Gemini husband said in exasperation to his Aries wife the other day, “I’m simply not used to having my life run for me by a five foot two inch woman”.
Love and relationships improve with age, fortunately, but almost always after one or two painful excursions to the divorce court. Once you have discovered what a terrific person you are, and that you can manage perfectly well on your own, you no longer feel the need to sweep each and every man you meet off his feet, just to prove to him and the world what a catch you are. You also learn, by trial and error, that it is better to let the guy kill dragons for you, not the other way around. And the good thing is, that by the time other women’s idea of fun is joining the knitting circle in the old-age home, you’ll be heading off to the Amazon with your much younger man who simply adores you!
Fall in Love with Aries
When you are in love with an Aries, you should not be shy, subtle or hesistant. Flirt openly. Commonly suggest something impulsively. Do not mislead the Aries’, by letting them think you are not interested. But if all your effort results into nothing, you should withdraw immediately and try being unreachable. Whatever you do, don’t start asking, begging or whining. He/she does not have time for oversensitive behaviour or needs whatsoever.
How could anyone possibly be so charming? So stylish and so confident? Well that is an easy task for an Aries. Aries symbolized, as “the ram” are born dynamos. When you feel drawn to an Aries, it is because of their air of “self assurance, outgoing nature and raw sexual energy. They are ego-driven and obsessed with all that encompasses “success”, “stature and image”. They off the impression that they are “larger than life” and are ready for any challenge no matter what the obstacles are.
If you are exhausted from “the hunt” and want someone else to take the initiative of the chase, Aries is the sun sign to choose. They love to chase rather than be chased. They are natural born initiators. Aries are also known to be great sexual athletes. Many men born under this sun sign have admitted to sexually identifying with “Tarzan”.
When someone or something captures their attention, they look for immediate results and quick returns. Especially in sexual matters. “Patience is not a virtue that an Aries is know to possess. So….take a deep breath and read on-you are in for a wild ride.”
How to Attract Aries
1. Aries love a challenge. DO NOT act interested in getting them into the bedroom. They need to feel they are responsible for the seduction. Do not be a sexual pushover.
2. Always look good-Aries are very image conscious-they must feel confident that you look great by their side. Throw out that old college sweatshirt and replace it with something sexy—preferably in red.
3. Obnoxious displays of wealth will entice this ego-driven charmer. Wear that gold Rolex and don’t be shy about showing those photos of your vacation retreat in the South of France. They love those who “reek of success”.
4. Always appear “ready for anything”. If you so much as yawn they’ll bolt…they love energetic partners.
5. Speak of your career in terms of “going to the top” at all costs. They love driven-ambitious people. Mention your university degree if any. Better yet have someone else make note of your achievements, as you are just to cool to mention them yourself.
6. Name drop… it does not hurt to mention your well-know acquaintances or friends…they love those in the limelight as that is where they think they should be.
Perfect Date for Aries
The latest trendy restaurant or nightclub where your Aries can parade around in their latest get-up. They love fashion and looking good. A good sushi restaurant where all of the “crème de la crème” congregate. Or better yet a drive in your new Porsche…they love high-end autos.
Perfect Gift for Aries
Red, Red and more Red. Be it clothing or a new car. This is their color of choice. Books on money making or something associated with their favorite sport. Example: maybe a ski weekend in Vail? Or that Versace belt they cannot live without.
What to talk to Aries
Fame, status, winning, their brilliant career. Or better yet talk about your destiny for greatness and your business savvy. These topics are sure to impress.
Aries in Bed
One thing for certain: never forget that the Planet Mars, the God of War, rules Aries. Love is war to an Aries. Once they have conquered you, prepare to be history.
Playing hard to get will get you everywhere with this dominant sun sign. They require a challenge—so be one. Feign indifference. They will be all over you. Should you lavish them with compliments and praise, they will love it but will not be interested in you sexually. Intrigue is the name of this game. NEVER let them feel they have you before you have had your romp in the hay. If you do, chances are you won’t see that haystack. Timing is key with an Aries as they are hot in the beginning. Be bold and maybe confess a secret sexual fantasy that has yet to be fulfilled. This should tempt them into participation.
Or better yet, seduce them with the smell of battle. Consider the following battlegrounds: chess, backgammon, stimulating debate, poker or tennis. They are very competitive so entice them with the excitement of a possible victory (for them that is). They love to be winners.
Another interesting method is that of a new thrill. Can you offer them some new adventure they have yet to participate in. How about ski diving or a jaunt in a hot air balloon? This is a perfect seduction technique, as they love new experiences-the wilder the better.