If you’re wondering whether a Virgo man is into you, don’t expect grand displays or passionate declarations of affection — at least, not at first. Virgo is a reserved sign that moves forward slowly and carefully in the game of love. In fact, for this sign, love isn’t a game at all; that’s why Virgo takes it so seriously. He might even seem indecisive about making his move, but it’s just that he wants to get to know you well before proceeding. If he’s interested in you, he’ll show it through his quiet, considerate attention. He’ll be a good listener, not to mention a great sounding board for any issues that might be troubling you, and he’ll always do his best to offer sensible, sensitive advice. The bottom line here is that Virgo is a true and traditional gentleman. If you want to know whether he’s into you, do your best not to push — not right away. In time, he will make his feelings known. And when he does, you’ll know it’s real.
Virgo Flirting Style: Shy and Mysterious
As a Virgo, your flirting style is predominantly unselfish, reserved, and mixed. Virgo is ruled by Mercury, which means these folks can be communicative. Their communicative flirting style will be based on body language. Although, Virgo’s work hard to keep their romantic relationships intact, they will not feel pressured to continuously pursue a prospect. Virgo people scream sexuality and sensuality. Virgo’s are very intelligent; they choose their partners with this quality. It will be difficult for a prospect to dig deep into the psyche of a Virgo.
Those who are able to attract a Virgo will be considered a highly-regarding individual. Virgo’s will not let random people enter their "sacred circle". This quality can easily annoy a Libra, Sagittarius, and Aries. Many of them refrain from having casual encounters. If they do have casual encounters, the Virgo is usually emotionally connected to the person. If you are a Virgo person searching for a compatible casual encounter, find an Aquarius, Gemini, or a Scorpio. Compatible long-term relationship zodiac signs for Virgos include Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, or a Capricorn.
How to Flirt with Virgo
You want to flirt with the introverted critic? Good luck. Actually Virgos love deeply but not quickly and they don’t like to be pushed or rushed. Give him time to get to know you. Virgos like to make the first move, which is usually just a little eye contact, followed by pretending you don’t exist, followed by more eye contact. Subtlety is key as he observes and makes up his mind about you. Virgos have a pretty healthy ego and are usually up for a challenge so enjoy yourself while letting him check you out. Just don’t hook up with someone as he has no interest in someone that appears committed to another. He will not waste his time being jealous.
Eye contact is enough to get his attention; just don’t stare. Hang out a little in his personal space but don’t barge in and take it over. He will likely walk away and not come back. Don’t be presumptuous with a Virgo. The Virgin is discerning. His guard will usually be up but some friendly small talk can bring it down a tad. Whatever you do though, don’t physical contact this very selective sign until he touches first.
Virgos are hygiene freaks so watch your manners. Don’t double dip that chip, scratch your dandruff (don’t have any!) or pick anything. Keep it clean and even a little fussy. Virgo rules the sympathetic nervous system and the lower digestive tract. His auto-pilot mindset and gut instinct rule his world. Follow Virgo’s lead and you won’t go wrong.