Scorpio Man Cheating
Scorpio is a passionate, driven man who doesn’t like to show his sensitive side to the public. He’s desperate to find a confident, successful woman to one day have as his trophy wife. He needs stability and passion, and isn’t afraid to try new things- especially in the bedroom. His mysterious nature and seductive ways makes him easy to get along with, yet he only holds true feelings for few. If you can put up with his controlling nature and mood swings, the Scorpio man will treat you like a princess and make you feel like the greatest woman in the world.
Scorpio is so dark, mysterious and passionate that they are often associated with cheating, but that’s not entirely fair. Intense and private, this is the sign you’re mostly likely to accuse of cheating and find yourself wrong. Oops. Scorpio can be incredibly loyal, but they do have strong physical desires and a need for excitement. The best advice? Don’t be afraid to get a little kinky and you’ll keep Scorpio forever in your bed.
Is Scorpio Man Cheating on You?
What do you do when Scorpio man cheats on you? Either kick him to the curb or work things out. If you choose to stay, it’s wise to find out why your Scorpio man betrayed you. Was his infidelity due to a character flaw that he has to address on his own, or was it a symptom of your relationship? Either way, you need to get to the bottom of the issue — in true Scorpionic fashion — to make sure it doesn’t happen again.
Scorpios Men are men of great intensity, in all they do and say. This male will say things that the rest of us are only thinking. He is not mean spirited, but he will state the truth even if it hurts the feelings of a person that is sensitive. This man doesn’t use a “sugar coating” in his thoughts and opinions. Honesty, even brutal, is a good quality – right? Understanding this man and his personality is the key to a loyal and loving mate.
His positive qualities lay with his loyalty and ability to be very resourceful. The flip side is that a Scorpio male is extremely jealous and obsessive. He is not jealous because of low self-esteem; it is just his way of showing love toward you.He is independent and you must allow him his space. Telling a Scorpio male that he is not capable will have you escorted to the door. Lying to this man will surely backfire on you as he is very intuitive and understands what people are “trying” to say even when they don’t say it outright. A Scorpion man has old fashioned views regarding relationships. He expects to be the breadwinner and in charge of the relationship. He is very good with his money; he makes it and keeps to a firm budget.
With their intuitive skills, caring and passionate nature, Scorpion men make great friends. But you never want to find yourself on the wrong side of the scorpion stinger as he never forgets (whether he is wronged or the recipient of a kind act). He repays betrayal with vengeance and a good deed with kindness. He is a man of “extremes”; the pendulum never settles in the middle for this man.
With all the traits, both good and bad, many women find the Scorpion man to be very sexy, intense and passionate. There are some women that feed on that, especially those with similar traits. However, if you are boring, shallow and uninteresting, then the Scorpion man is not for you. Without the intensity and the passion in a relationship, the Scorpion male will seek other pastures and you will find yourself being stung by the cheating Scorpio male.
Scorpio Dark Side
Scorpio are generaly JEALOUS, and tend to stack up unhappiness. Once the limit is reached prepare for a hell of a payback. In any event that you know that scorpio hates cheating, once a scorpio thinks that you are cheating, which could even be unintended, it could lead to dire consequences... There is also one thing to note, that Scorpio tends to enjoy private time alone... They are not cheating when they want personal time!
A Scorpio hates infidelity or the possibility of infidelity from his partner. Only he can cheat. Scorpio likes to play mind games with his partner, but hates being manipulated. Scorpio likes to be vindictive. But his partner can’t be vindicitive. She has to be forgiving. A Scorpio likes to boldly flirt and play with other women in front of their S/O, but she is not permitted to get jealous, or else she is accused of being insecure.
He wants total honesty, but he, himself is very secretive. They’re also very Narcisisstic.
Scorpio Faithful or Cheating
Still it comes up quite often in our readings…are Scorpio men notorious cheaters? The answer is both no… and yes. Scorpio is the sign of extremely extreme extremes. They can be loyal to a fault, hanging on to the memory of an ex for decades after a breakup. One-on-one relationships appeal to them as they like to get intensely entwined with a mate.
Still, they need the freak factor to be strong in their relationships. Otherwise, the chances of them straying for a “meaningless romp” here and there increases significantly. Aries (like Fergie) are known for putting on a blushworthy sexy show but can be shockingly prim behind the scenes. (Look at Ramstress Mariah Carey.) A Scorpio ex of mine once popped in his favorite porno to spell out his wishes. Unfortunately, our fantasies did not align and the relationship promptly ended.
So can a Scorpio man remain faithful and monogamous? Absolutely. Yes. But if you’re the type who wears miniskirts in public then swaddles herself in a granny robe when you get home, the odds are not stacked in your favor. You’ll have to tend to your sex goddess to keep him intrigued. Sign up for that pole dancing class (irritatingly trendy though it may be), forget to wear panties on date night, and be ready to take a tantric retreat in Thailand on a moment’s notice.
You’re not meeting his needs, or he’s just a sex fiend
Scorpio men need lots of sex. All men needs lots of sex, in fact, but Scorpio needs a certain kind. He wants to explore power issues in the bedroom (or wherever else you “do it”), experience a profound emotional connection during the act, or at the very least, have an intense sexual experience. If you are not open to this type of sex-play — or if you can’t withstand eye contact while you’re tipping over the edge — then your Scorpio may not feel satisfied.
Or maybe he’s just a sex addict, and his going behind your back has nothing to do with you. Scorpio can be compulsive (remember, his modern ruling planet is Pluto) and his actions may be driven by a deep psychological wound that needs more than a Band-Aid. Unless he’s willing to go to therapy or a 12-Step group (or utilize some other psychospiritual healing modality), he’s gonna keep doing what he’s doing. And a third option is that he cheated on you to get back at you for hurting him.