Dating a Gemini Man

People born under the sign of Gemini are typically characterized as social and multi-faceted. Bearing the image of the Twins and born between 20th May to 20th June, a Gemini lover is unlikely to ever let you have a dull moment in life. However, at the same time, you need to keep up with him or you stand the risk of losing him to a constant need for change and variety. Read on to know what it is like to date a Gemini man and how you can have a relationship with him.

Start by frequenting the right places which, in this case, means bright, intelligent gatherings. A Gemini loves to talk and more likely than not, you will find him the proverbial life of the party. Such a man will regale his audience with hilarious accounts of his travel or hair-rising stories of his adventures. A Gemini guy likes being surrounded by people and in fact thrives on exchange and collaboration. This is an indication of his extremely social nature and you would do well to go along with the flow instead of being jealous of his considerably large female social circle.

How to Dating a Gemini Man

If you want to date a Gemini guy, be sure to brush up your general knowledge. While a Gemini is fond of talking, it is not merely idle chatter with him. He is witty, intelligent and curious to know about people and places. He revels in exchange of information and particularly enjoys this with people close to him. Merely being a good listener is not enough to keep up with a Gemini lover. Draw him towards you with a clever remark or two and then be sure to maintain his interest by carrying on a scintillating conversation.

Dating a Gemini guy is being on a roll for most of the time. This is a guy who loves fun, frolic and variety. Today he may whisk you away to a rollicking time at a country dance festival while the next day, he may turn up in a black tux for an evening of Beethoven’s performance. This craving for diversity may at times seem to border dangerously on instability and fickleness.

He is usually quick to grasp a new thought or appreciate a new sensation but within the blink of an eye he may have moved onto something else. To an outsider, this could smack of restlessness and an inability to see things through. However, those close to him know that a Gemini man needs new sights and experiences to feel alive. So if you intend to keep him, make sure that you have a whole range of persona and experiences to offer him and are willing to go along with this lifestyle without weighing him down.

Multi-tasking is what Geminis excel in. So if you are dating a guy who has two jobs, plays football on Wednesdays, helps out at the local parish on weekends, works out at the gym three times a week and still asks you out, chances are that he is a Gemini. Such a person is adept at doing a number of things at the same time.

His high energy and ability to pierce the heart of the matter instantly, allow him to carry on with his several interests simultaneously. Little wonder then that this sign is ruled by the planet Mercury who in Greek mythology was the quick-footed messenger of Gods. In addition to possessing a quick-silver wit, a Gemini guy is also fast on his feet and nimble with his hands. So if there is a flat tire that needs to be changed on the middle of the road or a movie that starts in just fifteen minutes, you can be sure that your guy will get you there.

On the other hand, a Gemini may also suffer from burn-outs and at times leave a task midway. So if you are counting on your Gemini lover’s promise of helping you out with the Thanksgiving dinner on account of his self-acclaimed expertise in Southern cuisine, ensure that you have a backup plan ready. Such men are notorious for being quick to promise and not keeping it in the end. At the same time, rest assured that the excuse he will come up with for arriving late will seem entirely credible and he will salvage himself by playing the perfect charmer to your guests.

How to know if an Gemini man loves you?

Gemini men are often unromantic, so love notes and whispering sweet nothings isn’t normally their style. They’re typically fairly straightforward and will outright tell you they love you. Often the bigger issue is determining how sincere they are. If you’re questioning the sincerity the most obvious physical signs are that if they love someone they want to be around them all the time, they’ll share personal details with you and get a little jealous (less so than most other signs) if you hang out with other people while ignoring them.

Once You Are Dating

If you’re the kind of person who struggles with commitment, a Gemini man could be your dream date. You’ll never be bored as it feels like you’re dating two men! Seriously, ladies, one day you’ll wake up to one boyfriend, and the next day he will be somebody completely different. My man’s other side even has his own name, so we joke about which personality I’m getting to spend time with today. Gemini men will always keep you on your toes.

If your idea of a good time is planning every little thing down to what you’re going to wear tomorrow, then Gemini isn’t the star sign for you. Many Geminis hate to make plans, never know what they’ll be doing from one second to the next and have unpredictable mood swings. Now, I don’t mean to generalize, but this seems to be the case with quite a few Gemini guys. One thing’s for sure, life will never be dull!

Unpredictability is all very well, but what if your guy doesn’t show up when he says he will, cancels plans at the last minute or has mood changes that rival even your worst moments of PMT? It’s a sad fact that many Gemini men can be a bit flaky, and this seems to be a trait which can also affect Gemini women. Turning up late for a date, changing plans you had to go to the movies or double-booking himself for a night out could be common occurrences if you’re dating a Gemini guy.

I’m making it sound as if Gemini men don’t have any positive characteristics, and nothing could be further from the truth! In fact, many Geminis are really in touch with their inner child, which means they’re constantly changing and evolving in the way they do things and how they look at the world. Three years on and my Gemini man never fails to surprise me, whether it’s making unexpected plans to do something together, or just revealing a hobby he’s into that I didn’t know about. Expect the unexpected when it comes to Gemini and you’ll rarely be disappointed!

Relationships As a Couple

Having a long term relationship with a Gemini man may appear quite a challenge at first. This is a guy who craves new scenes and experiences and the thought that he may quickly tire of your company may seem unnerving. But this is also a guy who is easy to please and a delight to know.

He prizes a sharp intellect and takes pleasure in connecting with another person, which is more than you can say for guys who cannot look beyond a curvy figure. The ease and effectiveness with which a Gemini is likely to communicate with his partner is sure to be a boon to any long term relationship. Above all, they are friendly, easy-going and brimming with charm – so what more do you need for a good date!

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