Aquarius Man Lover
Aquarius men seems to be more turned on when their partner is not. Although they may like sex, but it doesn’t seem to be as important to most Aquarians as it is to the other signs. Cyber or phone communication can do them just fine, while leaving their partner frustrated – unless he or she happens to be an Aquarian, too. When they do make love, it’s usually in their heads. Fantasizing about being caught in the act (and sometimes literally being caught in the act!) is more to their liking.
If you can turn them on through physical means, it’s because you’ve located their sensitive spots which are their calves, shins and ankles. Not very romantic, but then, neither are they, though they are generally open to suggestions. Like Aries, they’re more practical than outwardly demonstrative. Love? Well, they can love after a fashion. But it’s rarely the hearts and flowers type of love that many of the other signs seem to crave.
In love, an Aquarian must retain a certain amount of independence. It is unwise to give an Aquarian the feeling of being trapped. An Aquarian can involve themselves in a sexual relationship without getting too emotionally involved and attached. Friendship is a key component of romantic relationships with the water bearer. Often attracted to enigmas and mysterious types … closed books whose pages they enjoy finding a way to open up and read. A mystery intrigues the water bearer and can be rather arousing for an Aquarian-born.
These highly social creatures make friends easily, and are most likely to be friends with a partner before they are lovers. In love, Aquarius is tolerant and generous. They give as much freedom as they expect to have, rarely nagging or harping repeatedly about a mistake that was made. They are often reluctant to commit, although once they do they are very loyal and devoted partners.
Aquarian woman are great partners because they are so tolerant, easy to deal with, slow to take offence and are never jealous or unreasonable, never clinging or overemotional. She simply asks for respect of her privacy, which is one of the most important things to her and a little independence to go about her many interests. Although the Aquarian male may not jump quickly into an emotionally involved relationship, once he commits he views it as a very serious matter. He looks for a friend as well as a lover.
An idealist who believes in true love, Aquarius searches for a best friend and soulmate in one. The water bearer is a brainy, funny and charming soul who is magnetic and fascinating. The distant glamor of an Aquarian attracts like a magnet. Aquarians have a romantic streak … expect the unusual, blending with a futuristic, refined classical style of romanticism.
The eleventh sign adores intellectual stimulation. The meeting of the minds will often precede the meeting of bodies. A loyal and loving sign, most Aquarians are eccentric creatures. They are different and they are drawn toward others who are different too. They love a mysterious type, someone to figure out … Humanitarians, Aquarius can become fixated in loving mankind rather than one person, however if the right person comes along Aquarius will fall in love quickly. Although they are friendly with many, the water bearer enjoys few close and intimate relationships.
In love, Aquarians are full of surprises … fun, exciting and filled with the unusual. They see beyond the superficialities of appearance and accessories into the minds of their partners. For an Aquarius being in love means a deep connection with their partners minds, with frequent and lively intellectual conversations. Loyal and generous, they never quibble over petty matters.
The water bearer is not only different, perhaps even a little strange and unusual at times, they need to be outside of the crowd. They like it. Love with an Aquarian will be exciting and different, unusual and charming. Ruled by Uranus, the planet of freedom, mental studies and electricity, a relationship with an Aquarian is filled with interesting and unusual people, situations, ideas and conversations. It may be electric…
An Aquarian love will be interesting and intellectually stimulating. Some Aquarians find sexual intimacy more important than others, however most are enthusiastic about lovemaking. A strong mental connection is important regardless. An Aquarian is usually experimental and quite adventurous. Naturally curious, sex can become an exploration, revealing hidden depth and places of intrigue.
As the symbol of the New Age of Aquarius, this sign takes a progressive approach to sex but, contrary to popular belief, it’s not necessarily into the concept of free love. Certainly, it believes in the importance of independence within sexual relationships and the right of each individual to a personal life of their own. But Aquarius is no more libidinous and no less faithful than any other star sign – unless, of course, it gets bored.
Monotony, routine and mindless tradition always bring out the inborn rebel in Aquarius. Ruled by Uranus, the planet of experimentation, this sign needs lots of variety in its sex life with the stimulation of ongoing excitement and the chance to try out new things. This doesn’t have to mean it wants to jump into bed with everybody, though. Monogamy isn’t usually a problem for Aquarius – and as a fixed sign, sexually it can often be very loyal.
Because Aquarius is turned on by that which is new and different, sexual relationships with this star sign do, however, need to be kept constantly fresh and alive. To avoid its love affairs getting stale and uninteresting, it prefers to ring the changes, and is often happier in a semi-detached set-up which involves spending some time apart. Smother love is the kiss of death to Aquarius’s relationships, while absence often makes its heart grow fonder.
What you need to know is that Aquarians rarely stick to the rules when it comes to matters of the heart. They have their own unique set of morals and standards which are unlikely to conform to anyone else’s, but in turn they’re acceptant of others’ right to do exactly as they please. Sexually it’s almost impossible to shock an Aquarian. As the most forward-thinking sign of the Zodiac, anything and everything goes.
Strongly attracted to unconventionality, Aquarians prefer sexual partners who differ in some way from the norm, and the more out of the ordinary the better. Race, class, age and sexuality are no barriers to love for Aquarius – and as the star sign with the broadest take on variations of traditional coupledom, it’s also the sign most likely to shun tying the knot in favor of living together.
Open-minded, tolerant and undemanding – Aquarius makes a great sexual partner and friend. But if you’re looking for old-fashioned romance, and a lover to make you feel really special, the typical Aquarian is unlikely to fit the bill. Emotionally detached, and disdainful of sentimentality, they’re not very comfortable about expressing their affection. It’s rare for an Aquarian to say ‘I love you’. When they do, you know it’s for real.