How to Seduce a Virgo Man
Seducing Virgo is reasonably easy, the main thing it requires is some patience and care. It’s worth paying extra attention to grooming and clothing for this sign. Don’t wear anything too outrageous, as it will often make them uncomfortable if you go somehwere public and they feel you’re drawing too much attention to them. Similarly they value personal hygiene, both in themselves and others.
If you’re going somewhere public with them, don’t take flowers or any other gift which may draw attention - they really prefer to blend in, and if they feel the whole world knows they’re on a date they’ll be a lot more self conscious, which will make your task that much harder.
Virgos are intelligent people, with active and analytical minds. They are often fairly quiet and reserved until they’re comfortable with you, and this may come off as being uninterested or aloof. You may need to do much of the talking initially, and that’s okay because they enjoy listening. They really are wonderful people, but you may need some patience during this process until they start to open up a little.
Starting Virgo Man Relationships
If you are interested in a Virgo man, ask a mutual friend to introduce both of you. He is not the type to take the first step. Nor is he the type to fall in love at first sight.
If he decides to take out on a date, be punctual, show good manners (especially table ones), be poised and witty. More than any other sign, a Virgo appreciates a clever joke and even more, a clever repartee. They will prefer Johnny Carson’s ad-libbing that his ten minutes monologue.
First Moves with Virgo Man
Keep the conversation initially on an intellectual level rather emotional, at least until he is comfortable being with you. Start seducing them only AFTER this initial stage is over, because Virgo men are very cautious about forming relationships. It may take them a while before they show their feelings. So, the advice here is: Be Patient.
You have to show him you are in for the long haul and have no intention of making him jealous. As a first date, take him to a business-trade show or home-department store sale where he can look at all the time and labor-saving home appliances.
Winning a Virgo Man Heart
If you’re on the prowl for a Virgo man, the first thing you need to know is that a mushy, emotion packed, outburst of affection is NOT going to get you anywhere when it comes to this guy. A Virgo is, first and foremost, very realistic, and it’s usually very difficult for them to relax, and get carried away in a big fairy tale that you might want. Too generous displays of emotion, and getting showered in affection, are only going to scare him off, and make him even more distant.
Virgos are perfectionists in general, so a Virgo man is going to notice everything! He’s known to over analyze stuff when it comes to his appearance, his looks and everything else – if he notices a little thread hanging off his shirt it’s going to drive him nuts.
While he’s striving for perfection in everything he does, he’s also going to want someone he can’t find a flaw in. He’s going to go for a girl who is super slick, who obviously takes good care of herself, and he’ll look at every single detail.
The thing about Virgos, and romance that can get in your way, is the fact that they just don’t seem to mind being single at all – they simply do not chase girls. Combine that with the fact that you are chasing him, and openly showing your affection, might not do much help, since he’s not that sentimental. You see how it can’t get a bit complicated?
But don’t despair. It’s not all bad. In fact, it’s not bad at all. You see, even though he’s not the one to fall in love at first sight, and throw big romantic gestures at you all the time, once you get his heart, you’ll be rewarded with a partner who’ll make you feel loved and appreciated.
He’ll be sincere, dependable, patient, loving. All the things you might think aren’t in him, because he doesn’t show his emotions, will be so much more profound once he decides to form a relationship with you.
How to get there? Play it smart! Yes, he’s kind of into looks, and cleanliness, and stuff, but in the end, the most important thing you’ll need to have to seduce a Virgo man, is a good brain in your head! He’ll go for someone who can hold a conversation, who has a sense of humor to match his, someone who has etiquette, manners, poise.
Don’t worry – you show him that you’re ‘clean’ inside and out, and you’ll be in his heart in no time – and as I’ve already said, being in his heart is going to be amazing!