Sun in Virgo — Moon in Aries
The combination of Virgo Sun and Aries Moon signs produces some degree of conflict in your nature because of vast differences between these signs. The common qualities are hardness and a true strength of purpose. Real emotions are not likely to be common to your nature. The variance of these to signs suggests a personality that is high-spirited, combative, and critical.
Sociability is not second nature to you, and you seem to hold on to friends and lovers in spite of, not because of, the way you project yourself. You are demanding and exacting; always such a perfectionist. You have much less self-confidence than most perceive. You express yourself in a dynamic and executive way that makes you a strong, but probably not always the most popular manager. Mentally, you are both thoughtful and accurate, having piercing insights into people and situations.
Being not at all disinclined to voice your dissatisfaction with others, many will view you as an exceptionally demanding leader. You may have difficulty seeing yourself objectively as a sense of detachment and the lack of emotional involvement retards self appraisal. You may express emotions when you feel this would serve your purpose, but sentimentality and gushy emotions are viewed by you as character weaknesses to be avoided. You are repelled by others that openly demonstrate such traits.
For an easygoing and timid Virgo, or anyone else for that matter, to live up to that astonishing self-image, is impossible. Self-acceptance is one of the first lessons you must learn in life. You are a lot of the great things you believe you are, but there is no need to be a fearless a daredevil to prove yourself. There is no reason to get upset with yourself when carefulness or reasonable sense stop you from commencing whimsical and dangerous adventures. You are dapper and forceful in your dreams, but actually you are not really that certain or heroic.
You were probably shocked when you first recognized you were not the champion you had always believed you were. When it was time to realize your fantasies, you may have had the courage and strength to plan, but you immediately hesitated and got insecure. The issue is always whether to relax and let whatever happens happen or to just go ahead and do it. Aries has an inner character that is fervent, aggressive, and fearless while Virgo is conservative, careful, and shy. There are plenty of more normal ways to find exhilaration. Because you are very perceptive and very astute, big business can be exciting for you.
You gain great gratification and satisfaction from hard work, as do all Virgos. You are hardworking and honest and combine industrious enthusiasm with attention to detail and common sense. You do, however, need work that challenges you. Aries’ inner being is always uneasy and rejects drudgery and boredom. You are never fearful of asserting yourself when your hunches tell you to grab an advantage or try a bold venture, even though your Virgo character will always be incisive and conservative. Exactitude and flawlessness are your goals, and respect and allegiance your standards.
You are inclined to take personal matters very seriously, but you do have a sense of humor. Extreme anger and occasionally retaliation can come about with insults to your self-regard or pride. Your mood can he temperamental with cold assessments of others, and even though accurate, tend to be serious. Dealing with your moods is one of the most difficult aspects for you to know how to do. Sometimes, before you take the time to think about it, because you cannot restrain your anger, it is unleashed with lightning speed. Because you are mentally astute, even without realizing it, you soak up the stress and antagonism around you. Give yourself a chance to relax, have fun, and meditate if you want to stay more in control.