Venus in Aries
Aries Venus is a daring flirt. Subtlety is not for them. Instead of shyly hoping you’ll notice them, they will try to impress you by letting you know about their accomplishments. They are a bit self-centered, but the right person will find this endearing. Their innocent charm comes through even though they may be acting like a spoiled child. They are impulsive, impatient and passionate in all areas the word for Aries Venus is "intense".
Those born with Venus in Aries can bring a childlike wonder to romance. They love to be active and energetic. They don’t appreciate a "mature", vague or coy relationship. They love the chase and initial conquest. In order to keep their attention, you need to step it up to keep it new and fresh. They prefer their partner to be open and honest with them.
They don’t like playing games unless they’re fun. Spontaneity adds fuel to their fire, and they’d rather be playful than serious. They like to lead, so be prepared to follow, at least most of the time. They will compete with you as fast as they will with anyone else. They don’t like to lose when competing for someone’s affections, and when they lose, they may be very irritable or moody.
Aries Venus falls fast and they are impulsive, so they can easily be attracted to many types of people. They get bored easily, and can lose interest just as quickly as they fell in love. They are very affectionate. If they get hurt, they are not afraid to stand up for themselves. When paired with a shyer soul, they can be a bit overwhelming. They like to have a little tension in a relationship to keep the excitement going it creates that mental stimulation to spark their interest.
In friendship, Aries Venus likes to be the alpha personality in the group. They are generous, exciting and confident. They are not afraid to push the envelope just to see what happens. They are direct and honest, and won’t try to pull the wool over your eyes. They have no patience with self-pity and insecurity. Those born with Venus in Aries are admired because of their independence, confidence and sheer energy. They have a lust for life that makes them attractive. Instead of talking about what they want to do, they’re out there doing it.
The fastest way to turn off an Aries Venus is to make them read your mind or analyze a relationship. This is too much digging into the mind for this sign. They much prefer to be active and dynamic. They would prefer a good rousing fight to a heart to heart talk about where the relationship should go.
If a Venus in Aries person can learn a little patience and tolerance, they can find that everyone does not get boring after ten minutes. They need to learn to put the work into a relationship so it can be long term and satisfying for both partners. Drama doesn’t have to be on the level of Mount Vesuvius, lesser amounts of excitement can add interest, too. If Aries Venus stops for a moment and truly figures out what they really want, they will have a much easier time attaining their desire.
How to Love Venus in Aries?
Venus in Aries wants a strong partner. Be assertive and independent if you want one to like you. To make them feel loved, provide ways for them to experience new things. Be direct, open, and honest with them – they won’t much like game-playing or evasiveness, unless it is in the complete spirit of fun. Feed their need for spontaneity, and appreciate their playfulness. Understand their desire for the relationship to remain young and fresh. Aries likes to take the lead in love (even if their Sun Sign is gentle Pisces) – let them, at least most of the time. They feel pleasure during new experiences of any kind. You’ll be rewarded with a confident, responsive lover who just may show you the time of your life.
The man with Venus in Aries is most likely going to be attracted to a woman with Arian qualities – someone who is a little impulsive, perhaps headstrong and absolutely independently minded. This man admires strength and courage and wants a woman who is bold and spontaneous. A competitive spirit is also a turn on for the man who has Venus in Aries and he may enjoy playing sports with the object of his affection or engaging in other competitive activities. Venus in Aries man confuse sex for love and love for sex. Sex and love mean the same thing to him.
The Aries Venus woman needs a Mars type man. Whilst she can look after herself perfectly well, she doesn’t want a man who needs looking after. She wants a hero. She wants someone she can battle with & have great make up sex with later, someone who knows what he wants, someone who doesn’t make it too easy for her.